Me and... you?

  Especially when we need some assistance, do we seek help with the unstated proposition that it will be ... then get out of the way? Is that what we really are saying? We want or need protection, help or (fill in the blank) - but on our terms? Not sure that's how it works. If we are seeking help, isn't that help from another based on what whoever is being asked and is willing to do? Yet... isn't that how we react to the Lord? Once our 'crises' is over we want to take control again. A quick 'thanks' and we're off. Grateful creation, aren't we?

  Since it isn't a 'positive', do we take the time to learn from the situation we were in to discover what was happening and how to avoid it the next time? Do we develop new methods to respond to such situations? Most important, do we acknowledge the help given to us by others? I suspect we don't take much time to thank the Lord when He was the primary person leading us through the situation we were in. But how about others who help? How do you thank them... do you? Or is it a toss away 'thanks' without any gratitude attached? How do you feel when you have been one of those who helped someone else and they didn't even take the time to say 'thanks'? 

  Relationships are critically important. They aren't really delicate or they won't stand the test of... whatever comes the way. So they really aren't 'delicate' but they do need to be developed. And they do need nourishing, however we define this. No relationship will stand the test of ignoring. Have you seen many long-distance relationships survive? Time, others, lack of communication and interface all contribute to the eventual dissolve. Anyone's fault? Probably but that isn't the point. My suggestion that in any and all relationships there is a critical need for expressions of appreciation, development, and willingness to be in the relationship. While this last sentence may sound strange, think about it. How many relationships are you in, that have meaning, that don't require your participation?

  So my question: how are you nourishing your relationship with the Lord? This is making the unproven assumption that a: you have a relationship and b: you want His involvement in your life. Do you expect Him to only involve Himself in your life when it suits your needs or wants? Relationships really never work this way and to expect it to be the basis and operational definition of your relationship with the Lord is not a relationship. No, you don't have to do deeds of derring do to prove how important the Lord is - but minimally you have to be in communication. If you never spoke with your children or spouse or parents, or your friends, how long will that relationship grow and continue? Is it 'me and you' in your relationships?