There are many references related to fruit, being fruitful, etc. Being fruitful... your goal? Do you know how? Actually, there are over 100 verses that talk about being fruitful. But how is this defined? And what is required of us?
"Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself
unless it abides in the vine, so neither can you unless you abide in
Me." (John 15:4, NASB)
"Therefore bear fruits in keeping with repentance..." (Luke 3:8, NASB)
"...walk (live and conduct yourselves) in a manner worthy of the Lord,
fully pleasing to Him and desiring to please Him in all things, bearing
fruit in every good work and steadily growing and increasing in and by
the knowledge of God [with fuller, deeper, and clearer insight,
acquaintance, and recognition]." (Colossians 1:10, AMP)
"You did not choose Me but I chose you, and appointed you that
you would go and bear fruit, and that your fruit would remain, ..."
(John 15:16)
"You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from
thorn bushes, or figs from thistles? So, every healthy tree bears
good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit. A healthy tree
cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit.
Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown
into the fire. Thus you will recognize them by their fruits."
(Matthew 7: 16-20, ESV)
I've chosen only these 5 verses to be a guide to our understanding and applying 'fruitful'. Only a cursory glance tells us that fruitful is important. I believe it's our demonstration of our new life in Christ. John the Baptist in Luke challenges the new believer to bear fruit. Bottom line in my world - if scripture tells us that we should or shouldn't do (fill in the blank) then that ends the discussion and also informs us that we are able to fulfill this 'requirement'.
These scriptures also tell us that we can, should bear fruit that remains (John 15). John 15 also tells us that it is as we abide in the Lord that we do produce good fruit. But the scripture that speaks to what WE do is also instructive:
"And the one on whom seed was sown on the good soil, this is the
man who hears the word and understands it; who indeed bears
fruit and brings forth, some a hundredfold, some sixty, and some
thirty." (Matthew 13:23)
Now couple that with:
"Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away; and
every branch that bears fruit, He prunes it so that it may bear
more fruit." (Matthew 15:2-3)
It is WE who need to listen and hear the word, which leads us to understanding, which is expressed and seen in the fruit WE bear. It doesn't end there because the Lord wants us to continue to bear good fruit which requires US to continue to grow (prune) because we are becoming who we are and doing what we do.
WHEN will we get it in our minds and hearts that WE have been fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) by the God of the Universe? Why would He then leave us to our own devices?! We ALWAYS can turn to Him (1 Corinthians 10:13) at any time in any situation and He will help us to not just get through (fill in the blank) but also that we can become fruitful and bear good fruit!
Friday, February 28, 2020
Tuesday, February 25, 2020
Cares of the world
[Note: I have expanded an article for my church's newsletter because I thought this issue/problem/status is one we all face.]
Feel a bit beaten down? Or maybe you think you have so much on your plate that you can't add... one more thing. Perhaps you are so busy in your life that you've forgotten or left behind those other important things and people ... and aren't involved nor enjoying - living.? Familiar? So what are you doing about the cares? What are you willing to do to move beyond your current malaise?
Scripture invites us to “Cast our cares on the Lord…” – and is stated in both the Old and New Testaments: Psalm 55:22
"Cast your burden on the Lord [release it] and He will sustain and
uphold you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken (slip,
fall, fail)." (AMP)
and 1 Peter 5:6-7.
"Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God
[set aside self-righteous pride], so that He may exalt you [to a
place of honor in His service] at the appropriate time, casting
all your cares [all your anxieties, all your worries, and all your
concerns, once and for all] on Him, for He cares about you [with
deepest affection, and watches over you very carefully]. (AMP)
I do like the way the Amplified expands on the words to provide us with a deeper and fuller understanding. When identifying the cares, note that 'all' is indicated in every type of care - anxieties, worries, concerns. It also gives us the Lord's motivation - He cares.
Casting cares is also phrased in different ways throughout scripture. The point being – we CAN cast our cares, primarily because He really does care for us. Why don’t we? Myriad of reasons which does not negate the invitation. It has nothing to do with the care nor that we deserve relief. It is totally based in His love for us.
Have you ever asked yourself what holding on to the cares gets you? What entices you to hold on to them rather than casting them. And don’t think that casting is simply getting you out of a difficult situation. I didn't read that the Lord was 'taking' them from you, but I do remember a verse that says:
"No temptation [regardless of its source] has overtaken or enticed
you that is not common to human experience [nor is any temptation
unusual or beyond human resistance]; but God is faithful [to His
word—He is compassionate and trustworthy], and He will not let you
be tempted beyond your ability [to resist], but along with the
temptation He [has in the past and is now and] will [always] provide
the way out as well, so that you will be able to endure it [without
yielding, and will overcome temptation with joy]." (1Corinthians 10:13, AMP)
Cares come... fact of life. We have responsibilities... fact of life. This verse is talking about temptations and not cares... however, I think the principle applies. We also have One who is deeply concerned for/about/with us and everything associated with our lives. Never forget that He will always be our firm foundation to overcome. To cast or not to cast...
Feel a bit beaten down? Or maybe you think you have so much on your plate that you can't add... one more thing. Perhaps you are so busy in your life that you've forgotten or left behind those other important things and people ... and aren't involved nor enjoying - living.? Familiar? So what are you doing about the cares? What are you willing to do to move beyond your current malaise?
Scripture invites us to “Cast our cares on the Lord…” – and is stated in both the Old and New Testaments: Psalm 55:22
"Cast your burden on the Lord [release it] and He will sustain and
uphold you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken (slip,
fall, fail)." (AMP)
and 1 Peter 5:6-7.
"Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God
[set aside self-righteous pride], so that He may exalt you [to a
place of honor in His service] at the appropriate time, casting
all your cares [all your anxieties, all your worries, and all your
concerns, once and for all] on Him, for He cares about you [with
deepest affection, and watches over you very carefully]. (AMP)
I do like the way the Amplified expands on the words to provide us with a deeper and fuller understanding. When identifying the cares, note that 'all' is indicated in every type of care - anxieties, worries, concerns. It also gives us the Lord's motivation - He cares.
Casting cares is also phrased in different ways throughout scripture. The point being – we CAN cast our cares, primarily because He really does care for us. Why don’t we? Myriad of reasons which does not negate the invitation. It has nothing to do with the care nor that we deserve relief. It is totally based in His love for us.
Have you ever asked yourself what holding on to the cares gets you? What entices you to hold on to them rather than casting them. And don’t think that casting is simply getting you out of a difficult situation. I didn't read that the Lord was 'taking' them from you, but I do remember a verse that says:
"No temptation [regardless of its source] has overtaken or enticed
you that is not common to human experience [nor is any temptation
unusual or beyond human resistance]; but God is faithful [to His
word—He is compassionate and trustworthy], and He will not let you
be tempted beyond your ability [to resist], but along with the
temptation He [has in the past and is now and] will [always] provide
the way out as well, so that you will be able to endure it [without
yielding, and will overcome temptation with joy]." (1Corinthians 10:13, AMP)
Cares come... fact of life. We have responsibilities... fact of life. This verse is talking about temptations and not cares... however, I think the principle applies. We also have One who is deeply concerned for/about/with us and everything associated with our lives. Never forget that He will always be our firm foundation to overcome. To cast or not to cast...
Saturday, February 22, 2020
Patience
"Patience is not the ability to wait but the ability to
keep a good attitude while waiting." (Joyce Meyer)
Patience is not a subject I typically write about. We have never been great mates. However, as I've 'grown older', we seem to have developed a cautious detente. Oh, this is not something I brag about, and I try to not let it control my reactions and interactions... quite uncomfortable. It is an attitude and behavior I do believe is important. This is more of a 'how' question than a 'why'.
I do like what Joyce Meyer said - a good attitude while waiting. As I've said, waiting isn't and has never been my strong suit... definitely not a good attitude. The problem is that I (often) fume as I wait - and that accomplishes... right, nada. So how do I cultivate a good attitude while waiting? Do you share this plight and frustration? Probably (?) it's an issue of who I'm waiting on... or what has to happen before I can move on? Two different, yet related, issues.
And yes, scripture does speak about patience, such as:
"Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer."
(Romans 12:12)
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not
arrogant..." (1 Corinthians 13:4)
"...with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with
one another in love," (Ephesians 4:2)
"May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious
might, for all endurance and patience with joy," (Colossians 1:11)
"Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord. See
how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, being patient
about it, until it receives the early and the late rains. You also, be
patient. Establish your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is at hand."
(James 5:7-8)
"The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but
is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all
should reach repentance." (2 Peter 3:9)
And those are only a few of the scriptures that talk about patience and its need, focus, and place in our lives! Also... look at the variety of situations that require our patience!! Just these few scriptures indicate why we need patience, what we do during them (example: bearing with one another in love), etc. But the bottom line is that it IS something we do.
Truly, the issue isn't about patience, though that is the focus, but what we are to do as we are being patience. We need to understand that it is always for our benefit. But - it can also be an attitude we cultivate when we are in situations requiring patience because we can't control other people or their actions. Granted, we may be involved but we don't have to act as martyrs or get upset. Rather than fuming, what can we do? How can we improve our attitude?
No easy answer. But our attitude is precisely that - our. We can control this rather than simply giving in to frustration. The next time you find yourself in a waiting on others or things situation - try and learn from it. We all have coping mechanism we turn to so why not develop patience mechanisms? The more we actually employ (fill in the blank) the more we are in control of the situation... even if that only means our attitude.
Attitudes are personal. We chose them and reject others... and they are always 'ours'. The only way they change is when we decide and act on their 'place' and influence. No one can 'make' you accept an attitude - you are always in control.
keep a good attitude while waiting." (Joyce Meyer)
Patience is not a subject I typically write about. We have never been great mates. However, as I've 'grown older', we seem to have developed a cautious detente. Oh, this is not something I brag about, and I try to not let it control my reactions and interactions... quite uncomfortable. It is an attitude and behavior I do believe is important. This is more of a 'how' question than a 'why'.
I do like what Joyce Meyer said - a good attitude while waiting. As I've said, waiting isn't and has never been my strong suit... definitely not a good attitude. The problem is that I (often) fume as I wait - and that accomplishes... right, nada. So how do I cultivate a good attitude while waiting? Do you share this plight and frustration? Probably (?) it's an issue of who I'm waiting on... or what has to happen before I can move on? Two different, yet related, issues.
And yes, scripture does speak about patience, such as:
"Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer."
(Romans 12:12)
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not
arrogant..." (1 Corinthians 13:4)
"...with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with
one another in love," (Ephesians 4:2)
"May you be strengthened with all power, according to his glorious
might, for all endurance and patience with joy," (Colossians 1:11)
"Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord. See
how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, being patient
about it, until it receives the early and the late rains. You also, be
patient. Establish your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is at hand."
(James 5:7-8)
"The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but
is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all
should reach repentance." (2 Peter 3:9)
And those are only a few of the scriptures that talk about patience and its need, focus, and place in our lives! Also... look at the variety of situations that require our patience!! Just these few scriptures indicate why we need patience, what we do during them (example: bearing with one another in love), etc. But the bottom line is that it IS something we do.
Truly, the issue isn't about patience, though that is the focus, but what we are to do as we are being patience. We need to understand that it is always for our benefit. But - it can also be an attitude we cultivate when we are in situations requiring patience because we can't control other people or their actions. Granted, we may be involved but we don't have to act as martyrs or get upset. Rather than fuming, what can we do? How can we improve our attitude?
No easy answer. But our attitude is precisely that - our. We can control this rather than simply giving in to frustration. The next time you find yourself in a waiting on others or things situation - try and learn from it. We all have coping mechanism we turn to so why not develop patience mechanisms? The more we actually employ (fill in the blank) the more we are in control of the situation... even if that only means our attitude.
Attitudes are personal. We chose them and reject others... and they are always 'ours'. The only way they change is when we decide and act on their 'place' and influence. No one can 'make' you accept an attitude - you are always in control.
Wednesday, February 19, 2020
Salvation...Born again...Saved
However you refer to this act and status - salvation, born again, saved - this is not something to be taken lightly. I know I talk about this subject… often, both implied and directly. The reality is that when it comes to spiritual matters... we are always learning, always seeing new understandings about the 'topic/subject'. That's why I return to some of these, rarely with the same focus or perspective. As I learn, I try to share in order to give you 'meat' and not just milk. (1 Corinthians 3:2, Hebrews 5:12) - all of us should be continuing to grow in all spiritual aspects.
But when we talk about salvation/born again/saved - what does it truly mean and - ‘what’s in it for you’? Whether you like it or not, accept it or not - we are all born with a sinful nature. All. And, whether you like, accept scripture as The Word of God, doesn't make it less so. Scripture says:
"I was brought forth in [a state of] wickedness; In sin my mother
conceived me [and from my beginning I, too, was sinful]." (Psalms 51:5, AMP)
Again, whether or not you like this doesn't diminish its truth. Ephesians 2:1-5 expands on this reality but also gives us our redemption:
"And you [He made alive when you] were [spiritually] dead and
separated from Him because of your transgressions and sins, in
which you once walked. You were following the ways of this world
[influenced by this present age], in accordance with the prince of
the power of the air (Satan), the spirit who is now at work in the
disobedient [the unbelieving, who fight against the purposes of God].
Among these [unbelievers] we all once lived in the passions of our
flesh [our behavior governed by the sinful self], indulging the desires
of human nature [without the Holy Spirit] and [the impulses] of the
[sinful] mind. We were, by nature, children [under the sentence] of
[God’s] wrath, just like the rest [of mankind]. But God, being [so
very] rich in mercy, because of His great and wonderful love with
which He loved us, even when we were [spiritually] dead and
separated from Him because of our sins, He made us [spiritually]
alive together with Christ (for by His grace—His undeserved favor
and mercy—you have been saved from God’s judgment)." (AMP)
What's in for you? This chapter begins with what's in for you. It tells you who you were, what things you thought and how you acted, and what God did for us through His Son, Jesus. Deserved by us was never in question - we weren't, but this was never the Father's plan for us, this was not to be our destiny. Read 2 Corinthians 5:17-21, what I refer to as the great exchange. This is what's in it for us when we accept Jesus as Lord.
Verse 17 in 2 Corinthians 5 begins to 'educate' us in all that has happened once we realize our need for a savior and accept Jesus as our only way to restoration:
"Therefore if anyone is in Christ [that is, grafted in, joined to Him
by faith in Him as Savior], he is a new creature [reborn and renewed
by the Holy Spirit]; the old things [the previous moral and spiritual
condition] have passed away. Behold, new things have come [because
spiritual awakening brings a new life]."
YOU are an 'anyone'. This is your destiny awaiting you. The answer is your life's reason and meaning.
Romans (AMP) is called the Roman Road and says:
"... since all have sinned and continually fall short of the glory of God,
and are being justified [declared free of the guilt of sin, made
acceptable to God, and granted eternal life] as a gift by His [precious,
undeserved] [a]grace, through the redemption [the payment for our
sin] which is [provided] in Christ Jesus," (3:23-24)
"For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God [that is,
His remarkable, overwhelming gift of grace to believers] is
eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." (6:23)
"But God clearly shows and proves His own love for us, by the fact
that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us." (5:8)
"For whoever calls on the name of the Lord [in prayer] will be saved.” (10:13)
If I say that life begins at salvation, that is not a mere hyperbole. And without our choosing to accept who Jesus was and what He did... we are lost. Do you know the words that Jesus spoke about being born again to Nicodemus (John 3:1-9)?
"Jesus replied, “Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom
of God unless they are born again.” (v. 3)
"...Very truly I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God
unless they are born of water and the Spirit. Flesh gives birth to
flesh, but the Spirit gives birth to spirit." (v. 5-6)
God has provided your new life, but it is you who have the decision to accept:
"For with the heart a person believes [in Christ as Savior] resulting
in his justification [that is, being made righteous—being freed of the
guilt of sin and made acceptable to God]; and with the mouth he
acknowledges and confesses [his faith openly], resulting in and
confirming [his] salvation." (Romans 10:10, AMP)
However, never believe that everything will be a bed of roses when you do accept and declare Jesus is your Lord. You now have an enormous target on your back. The devil does NOT want you saved... but if you ignore and deny the devil, he definitely doesn't want you to overcome and be fruitful. You may come to Jesus, 'just as you are'... but He won't leave you in that state because He wants you free, fruitful, and living the abundant life in Him. This happens as you grow in who you are, whose you are, and how you go about being you.
But when we talk about salvation/born again/saved - what does it truly mean and - ‘what’s in it for you’? Whether you like it or not, accept it or not - we are all born with a sinful nature. All. And, whether you like, accept scripture as The Word of God, doesn't make it less so. Scripture says:
"I was brought forth in [a state of] wickedness; In sin my mother
conceived me [and from my beginning I, too, was sinful]." (Psalms 51:5, AMP)
Again, whether or not you like this doesn't diminish its truth. Ephesians 2:1-5 expands on this reality but also gives us our redemption:
"And you [He made alive when you] were [spiritually] dead and
separated from Him because of your transgressions and sins, in
which you once walked. You were following the ways of this world
[influenced by this present age], in accordance with the prince of
the power of the air (Satan), the spirit who is now at work in the
disobedient [the unbelieving, who fight against the purposes of God].
Among these [unbelievers] we all once lived in the passions of our
flesh [our behavior governed by the sinful self], indulging the desires
of human nature [without the Holy Spirit] and [the impulses] of the
[sinful] mind. We were, by nature, children [under the sentence] of
[God’s] wrath, just like the rest [of mankind]. But God, being [so
very] rich in mercy, because of His great and wonderful love with
which He loved us, even when we were [spiritually] dead and
separated from Him because of our sins, He made us [spiritually]
alive together with Christ (for by His grace—His undeserved favor
and mercy—you have been saved from God’s judgment)." (AMP)
What's in for you? This chapter begins with what's in for you. It tells you who you were, what things you thought and how you acted, and what God did for us through His Son, Jesus. Deserved by us was never in question - we weren't, but this was never the Father's plan for us, this was not to be our destiny. Read 2 Corinthians 5:17-21, what I refer to as the great exchange. This is what's in it for us when we accept Jesus as Lord.
Verse 17 in 2 Corinthians 5 begins to 'educate' us in all that has happened once we realize our need for a savior and accept Jesus as our only way to restoration:
"Therefore if anyone is in Christ [that is, grafted in, joined to Him
by faith in Him as Savior], he is a new creature [reborn and renewed
by the Holy Spirit]; the old things [the previous moral and spiritual
condition] have passed away. Behold, new things have come [because
spiritual awakening brings a new life]."
YOU are an 'anyone'. This is your destiny awaiting you. The answer is your life's reason and meaning.
Romans (AMP) is called the Roman Road and says:
"... since all have sinned and continually fall short of the glory of God,
and are being justified [declared free of the guilt of sin, made
acceptable to God, and granted eternal life] as a gift by His [precious,
undeserved] [a]grace, through the redemption [the payment for our
sin] which is [provided] in Christ Jesus," (3:23-24)
"For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God [that is,
His remarkable, overwhelming gift of grace to believers] is
eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." (6:23)
"But God clearly shows and proves His own love for us, by the fact
that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us." (5:8)
"For whoever calls on the name of the Lord [in prayer] will be saved.” (10:13)
If I say that life begins at salvation, that is not a mere hyperbole. And without our choosing to accept who Jesus was and what He did... we are lost. Do you know the words that Jesus spoke about being born again to Nicodemus (John 3:1-9)?
"Jesus replied, “Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom
of God unless they are born again.” (v. 3)
"...Very truly I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God
unless they are born of water and the Spirit. Flesh gives birth to
flesh, but the Spirit gives birth to spirit." (v. 5-6)
God has provided your new life, but it is you who have the decision to accept:
"For with the heart a person believes [in Christ as Savior] resulting
in his justification [that is, being made righteous—being freed of the
guilt of sin and made acceptable to God]; and with the mouth he
acknowledges and confesses [his faith openly], resulting in and
confirming [his] salvation." (Romans 10:10, AMP)
However, never believe that everything will be a bed of roses when you do accept and declare Jesus is your Lord. You now have an enormous target on your back. The devil does NOT want you saved... but if you ignore and deny the devil, he definitely doesn't want you to overcome and be fruitful. You may come to Jesus, 'just as you are'... but He won't leave you in that state because He wants you free, fruitful, and living the abundant life in Him. This happens as you grow in who you are, whose you are, and how you go about being you.
Sunday, February 16, 2020
Speck v. Log
It appears that we are far more adept at seeing specks in other's eyes (life) than the log in our own. Is this because it is so much simpler to focus on someone else's 'deficiencies' than to work on correcting our own? Or are we simply attempting to deflect the attention away from ours by pointing out another's? Both?
Scripture does warn us about how we interact with others, especially when our motivation is self-protection:
"Don’t pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults—
unless, of course, you want the same treatment. That critical spirit
has a way of boomeranging. It’s easy to see a smudge on your
neighbor’s face and be oblivious to the ugly sneer on your own. Do
you have the nerve to say, ‘Let me wash your face for you,’ when
your own face is distorted by contempt? It’s this whole traveling
road-show mentality all over again, playing a holier-than-thou part
instead of just living your part. Wipe that ugly sneer off your own
face, and you might be fit to offer a washcloth to your neighbor."
(Matthew 7:1-5, Luke 6:42, MSG)
In this more modern translation, the words that jumped out at me were 'critical spirit'. Is this at the source of our behavior? Is it we truly don't see our own deficiencies? Or are we responding to the same issues in others that we are facing? Regardless, how we respond says it all. Bottom line is that we all have both specks and logs, smudges and sneers. Personally I hate sneers and I never want that to be my response.
Once we have some perspective, the question is - now what? How do we remove our own logs/sneers before we point out the other person's specks/smudges? Part of the answer, in my opinion, is in renewing. We must renew our minds so that our actions mirror what we should think (Philippians 4:8). When we think on those things and let them influence our attitudes, then we begin the journey to becoming a better us. But do remember this is a journey, it's never one and done, it's always a process.
Simplistic, but I believe another answer is the old adage of counting to 10 before responding. It works. I have a bit of a flash temper and every time I speak or do something before using this simple mindset, I end up having to apologize or rescind something. If we are committed to being our best, then we will employ whatever strategy will work for us in these situations.
The last suggestion is to remember that your sight is limited when you have a log in the way. If you believe the other person needs your insight, then you need to be able to see to assist the person in removing their speck.
"Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the
law of Christ." (Galatians 6:2)
"God is not unjust; He will not forget your work and the love you
have shown Him as you have helped His people ad continue to
help them" (Hebrews 6:10)
"...not looking to your own interests but each of you to the
interests of the others." (Philippians 2:4)
Those scriptures should provide us all with the mindset we need in our interactions with others. We are their companions, not their superior.
Scripture does warn us about how we interact with others, especially when our motivation is self-protection:
"Don’t pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults—
unless, of course, you want the same treatment. That critical spirit
has a way of boomeranging. It’s easy to see a smudge on your
neighbor’s face and be oblivious to the ugly sneer on your own. Do
you have the nerve to say, ‘Let me wash your face for you,’ when
your own face is distorted by contempt? It’s this whole traveling
road-show mentality all over again, playing a holier-than-thou part
instead of just living your part. Wipe that ugly sneer off your own
face, and you might be fit to offer a washcloth to your neighbor."
(Matthew 7:1-5, Luke 6:42, MSG)
In this more modern translation, the words that jumped out at me were 'critical spirit'. Is this at the source of our behavior? Is it we truly don't see our own deficiencies? Or are we responding to the same issues in others that we are facing? Regardless, how we respond says it all. Bottom line is that we all have both specks and logs, smudges and sneers. Personally I hate sneers and I never want that to be my response.
Once we have some perspective, the question is - now what? How do we remove our own logs/sneers before we point out the other person's specks/smudges? Part of the answer, in my opinion, is in renewing. We must renew our minds so that our actions mirror what we should think (Philippians 4:8). When we think on those things and let them influence our attitudes, then we begin the journey to becoming a better us. But do remember this is a journey, it's never one and done, it's always a process.
Simplistic, but I believe another answer is the old adage of counting to 10 before responding. It works. I have a bit of a flash temper and every time I speak or do something before using this simple mindset, I end up having to apologize or rescind something. If we are committed to being our best, then we will employ whatever strategy will work for us in these situations.
The last suggestion is to remember that your sight is limited when you have a log in the way. If you believe the other person needs your insight, then you need to be able to see to assist the person in removing their speck.
"Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the
law of Christ." (Galatians 6:2)
"God is not unjust; He will not forget your work and the love you
have shown Him as you have helped His people ad continue to
help them" (Hebrews 6:10)
"...not looking to your own interests but each of you to the
interests of the others." (Philippians 2:4)
Those scriptures should provide us all with the mindset we need in our interactions with others. We are their companions, not their superior.
Thursday, February 13, 2020
No Equivocation
The 'relativism' bug seems to have invaded and affected every segment of our society. The primary problem with this approach is that there is no standard, no set of principles to guide. 'It depends' is the mantra and justification. However, as a Christian - you do have standards and principles. The Church stands on the Principles and Standards of our God... or we fall.
You can't accept a relativism approach to life and its issues when it comes to the Lord's principles and standards - principles and standards are not a smorgasbord of options. If you are a Christian, they are givens. Remember what the word says?
"All Scripture is God-breathed [given by divine inspiration] and is
profitable for instruction, for conviction [of sin], for correction [of
error and restoration to obedience], for training in righteousness
[learning to live in conformity to God’s will, both publicly and
privately—behaving honorably with personal integrity and moral
courage]; so that the man of God may be complete and proficient,
outfitted and thoroughly equipped for every good work."
(2 Timothy 3:16-17, AMP)
Instruction, conviction, correction, restoration, training - purpose: personal integrity, moral courage, complete, proficient, outfitted and equipped. That's the purpose of the Word and why it is so important. It also underlines why it is ALL of the Word and not just the verses that we want to be evident in our lives. It also warns us:
"I testify and warn everyone who hears the words of the prophecy
of this book [its predictions, consolations, and admonitions]: if
anyone adds [anything] to them, God will add to him the plagues
(afflictions, calamities) which are written in this book; and if
anyone takes away from or distorts the words of the book of this
prophecy, God will take away [from that one] his share from the
tree of life and from the holy city (new Jerusalem), which are
written in this book" (Revelations 22: 18-19)
If nothing else, these two scriptures should put an end to this question of the validity of the Word and its importance. It should also divest relativism of any importance and truth.
And Yes - you can grow in understanding about scripture and the principles and standards it imparts. This may mean a refining of your understanding.You don't 'modernize', update, sweep under the carpet that which identifies and defines Christianity - you proudly proclaim this. No, not arrogantly... remembering to speak truth in love, demonstrate faith by works.
Our personal stand is crucial and it does demonstrate who we are and what we believe. We are IN our world even if we aren't apart of it. (John 17:14, 15:19) Our world is our responsibility - not to hide from. Simply, we are in a war, a battle and without a known foundation then we flounder. Remember who the enemy is:
"For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in
God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and
every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God,
bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ,
and being ready to punish all disobedience when your obedience
is fulfilled." (2 Corinthians 10:4-6, NKJV)
WE are the conquerors and standing on the principles and standards of our Lord will be indispensable. If we doubt who we are and the nature of our enemy, we will hesitate and if it is a crucial time - this could be devastating. Standing is an act of faith.
You can't accept a relativism approach to life and its issues when it comes to the Lord's principles and standards - principles and standards are not a smorgasbord of options. If you are a Christian, they are givens. Remember what the word says?
"All Scripture is God-breathed [given by divine inspiration] and is
profitable for instruction, for conviction [of sin], for correction [of
error and restoration to obedience], for training in righteousness
[learning to live in conformity to God’s will, both publicly and
privately—behaving honorably with personal integrity and moral
courage]; so that the man of God may be complete and proficient,
outfitted and thoroughly equipped for every good work."
(2 Timothy 3:16-17, AMP)
Instruction, conviction, correction, restoration, training - purpose: personal integrity, moral courage, complete, proficient, outfitted and equipped. That's the purpose of the Word and why it is so important. It also underlines why it is ALL of the Word and not just the verses that we want to be evident in our lives. It also warns us:
"I testify and warn everyone who hears the words of the prophecy
of this book [its predictions, consolations, and admonitions]: if
anyone adds [anything] to them, God will add to him the plagues
(afflictions, calamities) which are written in this book; and if
anyone takes away from or distorts the words of the book of this
prophecy, God will take away [from that one] his share from the
tree of life and from the holy city (new Jerusalem), which are
written in this book" (Revelations 22: 18-19)
If nothing else, these two scriptures should put an end to this question of the validity of the Word and its importance. It should also divest relativism of any importance and truth.
And Yes - you can grow in understanding about scripture and the principles and standards it imparts. This may mean a refining of your understanding.You don't 'modernize', update, sweep under the carpet that which identifies and defines Christianity - you proudly proclaim this. No, not arrogantly... remembering to speak truth in love, demonstrate faith by works.
Our personal stand is crucial and it does demonstrate who we are and what we believe. We are IN our world even if we aren't apart of it. (John 17:14, 15:19) Our world is our responsibility - not to hide from. Simply, we are in a war, a battle and without a known foundation then we flounder. Remember who the enemy is:
"For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in
God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and
every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God,
bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ,
and being ready to punish all disobedience when your obedience
is fulfilled." (2 Corinthians 10:4-6, NKJV)
WE are the conquerors and standing on the principles and standards of our Lord will be indispensable. If we doubt who we are and the nature of our enemy, we will hesitate and if it is a crucial time - this could be devastating. Standing is an act of faith.
Monday, February 10, 2020
Listening... with more than our ears
Listening involves all of us. Attentive would be the word to describe 'how' we should listen. 'Attentive', in my world of definitions means: a listening heart - the what and how of the communication, eyes that watch the verbal and non verbal expressions, ears attuned to the words used and their definitions, and especially a closed mouth until the other person has finished. There's an old saying that talks about we have 2 ears and eyes and only 1 mouth. I believe it's an attempt to attune us to the need of using our 2's before we use our 1.
I've always believed that no one will be able to hear what you are saying until they've had the opportunity to say what they need to say. Once they have, then it is critical to make certain you are defining words the same. Again, use questions to make certain you hear what is being said. Questions also have the ability to confirm to the speaker that you were listening.
There are so many facets to listening. Body language, not very difficult to read, is an ally in providing other kinds of understandings - is it timid, is it abrasive, is it bravado - all are easily discernible. The tone used by the speaker can aid in discovering their passion about what they are saying. Eye contact is a different piece of information about the level of the speaker's commitment to what is said. But the point in all this is that the first few words out of your mouth tells the speaker if you do understand, if you listen and are involved with what is said. This will go miles in terms of their reaction to your reaction. Another huge clue is your body language to what they are saying when they are saying it. The speaker is rarely clueless regarding how their words are understood and accepted.
Scripture says this about our listening, and never be lulled into thinking that listening is passive:
"Understand this, my beloved brothers and sisters. Let everyone be
quick to hear [be a careful, thoughtful listener], slow to speak [a
speaker of carefully chosen words and],..." (James 1:19, AMP)
"...blessed (happy, favored by God) are those who hear the word
of God and continually observe it.” (Luke 11:28, AMP)
"The things which you have learned and received and heard and
seen in me, practice these things [in daily life], and the God [who
is the source] of peace and well-being will be with you." (Philippians 4:9, AMP)
Those are only a few of the verses that speak to us about listening. But, they do indicate the importance. We need to be good listeners so that we hear all that is actually spoken (and don't finish the sentence of the speaker for them in your minds). Can we develop a growing sensitivity to listening? Of course or we wouldn't be asked to listen.
A different 'spin' on listening was provided by a friend of mine who recently wrote the following in his report about his trip to India:
"The universal language is listening, you don't always have to
know what they are saying to hear what people feel and need."
Perhaps the final thought is remembering our own reaction to whether or not we think we are heard. When we are misquoted or not listened to, it's difficult to have a positive reaction to our audience. Granted we have the responsibility to be clear in our communication... but don't you know when you aren't being listened to? Of course. Don't be that kind of listener.
I've always believed that no one will be able to hear what you are saying until they've had the opportunity to say what they need to say. Once they have, then it is critical to make certain you are defining words the same. Again, use questions to make certain you hear what is being said. Questions also have the ability to confirm to the speaker that you were listening.
There are so many facets to listening. Body language, not very difficult to read, is an ally in providing other kinds of understandings - is it timid, is it abrasive, is it bravado - all are easily discernible. The tone used by the speaker can aid in discovering their passion about what they are saying. Eye contact is a different piece of information about the level of the speaker's commitment to what is said. But the point in all this is that the first few words out of your mouth tells the speaker if you do understand, if you listen and are involved with what is said. This will go miles in terms of their reaction to your reaction. Another huge clue is your body language to what they are saying when they are saying it. The speaker is rarely clueless regarding how their words are understood and accepted.
Scripture says this about our listening, and never be lulled into thinking that listening is passive:
"Understand this, my beloved brothers and sisters. Let everyone be
quick to hear [be a careful, thoughtful listener], slow to speak [a
speaker of carefully chosen words and],..." (James 1:19, AMP)
"...blessed (happy, favored by God) are those who hear the word
of God and continually observe it.” (Luke 11:28, AMP)
"The things which you have learned and received and heard and
seen in me, practice these things [in daily life], and the God [who
is the source] of peace and well-being will be with you." (Philippians 4:9, AMP)
Those are only a few of the verses that speak to us about listening. But, they do indicate the importance. We need to be good listeners so that we hear all that is actually spoken (and don't finish the sentence of the speaker for them in your minds). Can we develop a growing sensitivity to listening? Of course or we wouldn't be asked to listen.
A different 'spin' on listening was provided by a friend of mine who recently wrote the following in his report about his trip to India:
"The universal language is listening, you don't always have to
know what they are saying to hear what people feel and need."
Perhaps the final thought is remembering our own reaction to whether or not we think we are heard. When we are misquoted or not listened to, it's difficult to have a positive reaction to our audience. Granted we have the responsibility to be clear in our communication... but don't you know when you aren't being listened to? Of course. Don't be that kind of listener.
Friday, February 7, 2020
Questions and Wisdom
"The key to wisdom is this: constant and frequent questioning, for by
doubting we are led to question and by questioning we arrive at the
truth." Abelard
So... believe this? Seriously, what is your opinion of 'questions'? Not like them because... questions, threaten, challenge the status quo or your personal beliefs? If what you believe is never questioned then how strong is the belief? And... a 'challenge' may be one way another person can refine or redefine their beliefs.
Remember: "As iron sharpens iron, So one man sharpens [and influences] another [through discussion]" (Proverbs 27:17, AMP). That's why we need to eliminate as much emotion as possible in our discussions. Discussions are designed to help us think about and have a level of confidence in what it is we do believe. Questions, in my opinion, are the primary method to discover and advance our knowledge and understanding.
You may be surprised but we really shouldn't avoid questions. It isn't necessarily doubt, despite what Abelard says! And I believe that this is the primary obstacle to questions - we think we are doubting and doubting is a no-no. In my thinking it is a teaching and learning method. So... do you view questions as doubts?Google:
"In the Gospels Jesus asks many more questions than He answers.
To be precise, Jesus asks 307 questions. He is asked 183 of which
He only answers .Asking questions was central to Jesus' life and
teachings."
307 questions (and those were all New Testament and only Jesus' questions)!!! Jesus, obviously, was not afraid of questions and neither should we. A question will either confirm what you believe or help you with new information and understandings to refine beliefs. That, to me, is a positive! A study shows that Jesus was asked 183 questions, of which He only answered 3. Do you have any idea what they are? Interestingly... all 3 related to the future: Matthew 24:3
When will these things happen?
What will be the sign of your coming?
What will be the sign of the end of the world?
I suspect that my surprise is based in those more immediate questions: who am I, what is my role and responsibility, how can I know and act on what I'm supposed to be and do... these kinds of questions. Then again... Jesus has already answered these questions when we look at who He was and how He went about being Himself. He was and is our model. When we read His words, we see what He thoughts and His behaviors.
'There is never a dumb question.' is typically the response if we begin our question with a statement that it may be a 'dumb' question. True. Questions lead us to truth and truth is the basis of Wisdom.
doubting we are led to question and by questioning we arrive at the
truth." Abelard
So... believe this? Seriously, what is your opinion of 'questions'? Not like them because... questions, threaten, challenge the status quo or your personal beliefs? If what you believe is never questioned then how strong is the belief? And... a 'challenge' may be one way another person can refine or redefine their beliefs.
Remember: "As iron sharpens iron, So one man sharpens [and influences] another [through discussion]" (Proverbs 27:17, AMP). That's why we need to eliminate as much emotion as possible in our discussions. Discussions are designed to help us think about and have a level of confidence in what it is we do believe. Questions, in my opinion, are the primary method to discover and advance our knowledge and understanding.
You may be surprised but we really shouldn't avoid questions. It isn't necessarily doubt, despite what Abelard says! And I believe that this is the primary obstacle to questions - we think we are doubting and doubting is a no-no. In my thinking it is a teaching and learning method. So... do you view questions as doubts?Google:
"In the Gospels Jesus asks many more questions than He answers.
To be precise, Jesus asks 307 questions. He is asked 183 of which
He only answers .Asking questions was central to Jesus' life and
teachings."
307 questions (and those were all New Testament and only Jesus' questions)!!! Jesus, obviously, was not afraid of questions and neither should we. A question will either confirm what you believe or help you with new information and understandings to refine beliefs. That, to me, is a positive! A study shows that Jesus was asked 183 questions, of which He only answered 3. Do you have any idea what they are? Interestingly... all 3 related to the future: Matthew 24:3
When will these things happen?
What will be the sign of your coming?
What will be the sign of the end of the world?
I suspect that my surprise is based in those more immediate questions: who am I, what is my role and responsibility, how can I know and act on what I'm supposed to be and do... these kinds of questions. Then again... Jesus has already answered these questions when we look at who He was and how He went about being Himself. He was and is our model. When we read His words, we see what He thoughts and His behaviors.
'There is never a dumb question.' is typically the response if we begin our question with a statement that it may be a 'dumb' question. True. Questions lead us to truth and truth is the basis of Wisdom.
Tuesday, February 4, 2020
Your witness in YOUR world
There is a place for you and your style. Is it what you want? Does it portray and share Who the Lord is in your life? How do you share? Effective is rarely defined as overbearing but it isn't defined as milksop either. Do you want to grow in your how' and 'what' that you witness?
Witness, Webster:
"...attestation of a fact or event - Testimony; one that gives evidence;
one who has personal knowledge of something; something serving as
evidence or proof - Sign; public affirmation by word or example of
usually religious faith or conviction
The word 'testimony' should give a clue as to our 'what'. We are testifying regarding our experience. The 'proof' is how our testimony matches our actions. We are far more reliable a witness when what we say is demonstrated in our lives. The final definition is the one most appropriate to our context - a public affirmation by word or example. if what we say has no relationship to how we live, then what kind of testimony are we providing?
"Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not
only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out
your own salvation with fear and trembling," (Philippians 2:12, ESV)
"For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth
one confesses and is saved." (Romans 10:10, ESV)
What you need to understand is that your witness is important and needed in your world. It is always personal and no one can share it but you. Polished? Is that necessary? I doubt it, regardless of the 'sophistication' of your audience. And you don't always get to choose your audience and time - the method, though, should be confident and assured.
There are over 25 verses that talk about witnessing and its importance:
"And he said to them, “Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.”
(Matthew 4:19, ESV)
"And this gospel of the kingdom will be proclaimed throughout the
whole world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come."
(Matthew 24:14, ESV)
"...but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being
prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason
for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect,"
(1 Peter 3:15, ESV)
"And He (Jesus) said to them, “Go into all the world and proclaim
the gospel to the whole creation." (Mark 16:15, ESV)
"Then He (Jesus) said to His disciples, “The harvest is plentiful, but
the laborers are few; therefore pray earnestly to the Lord of the
harvest to send out laborers into his harvest.” (Matthew 9:37-38, ESV)
In case you wondered... yes, you are included as a 'laborer'. This may sound bossy, but what you need to continually remember is that the Lord has called YOU, right where you are to be His Ambassador in your world and the foundation includes the realization that He doesn't leave you alone - the Holy Spirit is always with you empowering you to be a witness.
Witness, Webster:
"...attestation of a fact or event - Testimony; one that gives evidence;
one who has personal knowledge of something; something serving as
evidence or proof - Sign; public affirmation by word or example of
usually religious faith or conviction
The word 'testimony' should give a clue as to our 'what'. We are testifying regarding our experience. The 'proof' is how our testimony matches our actions. We are far more reliable a witness when what we say is demonstrated in our lives. The final definition is the one most appropriate to our context - a public affirmation by word or example. if what we say has no relationship to how we live, then what kind of testimony are we providing?
"Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not
only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out
your own salvation with fear and trembling," (Philippians 2:12, ESV)
"For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth
one confesses and is saved." (Romans 10:10, ESV)
There are over 25 verses that talk about witnessing and its importance:
"And he said to them, “Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.”
(Matthew 4:19, ESV)
"And this gospel of the kingdom will be proclaimed throughout the
whole world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come."
(Matthew 24:14, ESV)
"...but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being
prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason
for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect,"
(1 Peter 3:15, ESV)
"And He (Jesus) said to them, “Go into all the world and proclaim
the gospel to the whole creation." (Mark 16:15, ESV)
"Then He (Jesus) said to His disciples, “The harvest is plentiful, but
the laborers are few; therefore pray earnestly to the Lord of the
harvest to send out laborers into his harvest.” (Matthew 9:37-38, ESV)
In case you wondered... yes, you are included as a 'laborer'. This may sound bossy, but what you need to continually remember is that the Lord has called YOU, right where you are to be His Ambassador in your world and the foundation includes the realization that He doesn't leave you alone - the Holy Spirit is always with you empowering you to be a witness.
Saturday, February 1, 2020
Think on these things...
We are told in scripture, in a variety of verses, to renew our minds. It must be important to be repeated. It also must be something we can do or we wouldn't have been told to do it. However, we also must look at renewing as a process. We are so immediacy drawn that if we don't see a change, improvement, difference immediately then we are tempted to 'throw in the towel' and quit. Much of our Christian life is a process, most of us don't have an immediate experience. It's OK in either situation. The point is renewal.
So... how do we go about renewing our mind (and yes, I have written about this and will continue to do so as I discover/experience another facet to share)? What aids us? What will get us on the right path of renewal. Process is a continuing focus, not one and done. Remember it took you (your age) time to get to (develop) the place you are in your thought life - what you typically think on and subsequently act on. You've built your frame of reference, your mindset so it isn't going to be a quick change. However, it is important and it can be done.
"Finally, believers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable and
worthy of respect, whatever is right and confirmed by God’s word,
whatever is pure and wholesome, whatever is lovely and brings peace,
whatever is admirable and of good repute; if there is any excellence,
if there is anything worthy of praise, think continually on these things
[center your mind on them, and implant them in your heart]. The
things which you have learned and received and heard and seen in
me, practice these things [in daily life], and the God [who is the
source] of peace and well-being will be with you." (Philippians 4:8-9, AMP)
"Summing it all up, friends, I’d say you’ll do best by filling your
minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic,
compelling, gracious—the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not
the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse. Put into practice
what you learned from me, what you heard and saw and realized.
Do that, and God, who makes everything work together, will work
you into his most excellent harmonies." (Philippians 4:8-9, MSG)
True, honorable, worthy of respect, right/confirmed, pure, wholesome, lovely, peace, admirable, of good repute, excellent, worthy of praise, true, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious, best, beautiful, praise... that is a long list of what we can think on. I can't speak for you but when my thought life turns into a 'me-ism' party, then I'm not thinking on what I should. However, I can stop the one behavior and begin the other - it IS my decision.
If you are wondering 'why' we should change what we think on, then ask yourself if you can grow and become all the Lord has planned for you if you are only thinking about your definition of you and/or 'what's in it for me'? Why we should be thinking on that which scripture directs to is that we get out of our own box and begin seeing what is happening around us, whether or not it has a direct influence on us. Another reason is that we aren't focusing on those thoughts and attitudes that typically get us in trouble. Obviously there are other reasons to think on what Philippians is saying - it will build us up.
Thinking on these things does help us to renew our minds, to focus our thought life and to continue to do those things that are pleasing. Bottom line always is... it is our choice, our decision. And also remember that scripture doesn't say we have to do this alone. The Holy Spirit is with us, strengthening and helping us to become all we can be. You are equipped and enabled to renew - but it takes time.
So... how do we go about renewing our mind (and yes, I have written about this and will continue to do so as I discover/experience another facet to share)? What aids us? What will get us on the right path of renewal. Process is a continuing focus, not one and done. Remember it took you (your age) time to get to (develop) the place you are in your thought life - what you typically think on and subsequently act on. You've built your frame of reference, your mindset so it isn't going to be a quick change. However, it is important and it can be done.
"Finally, believers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable and
worthy of respect, whatever is right and confirmed by God’s word,
whatever is pure and wholesome, whatever is lovely and brings peace,
whatever is admirable and of good repute; if there is any excellence,
if there is anything worthy of praise, think continually on these things
[center your mind on them, and implant them in your heart]. The
things which you have learned and received and heard and seen in
me, practice these things [in daily life], and the God [who is the
source] of peace and well-being will be with you." (Philippians 4:8-9, AMP)
"Summing it all up, friends, I’d say you’ll do best by filling your
minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic,
compelling, gracious—the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not
the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse. Put into practice
what you learned from me, what you heard and saw and realized.
Do that, and God, who makes everything work together, will work
you into his most excellent harmonies." (Philippians 4:8-9, MSG)
True, honorable, worthy of respect, right/confirmed, pure, wholesome, lovely, peace, admirable, of good repute, excellent, worthy of praise, true, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious, best, beautiful, praise... that is a long list of what we can think on. I can't speak for you but when my thought life turns into a 'me-ism' party, then I'm not thinking on what I should. However, I can stop the one behavior and begin the other - it IS my decision.
If you are wondering 'why' we should change what we think on, then ask yourself if you can grow and become all the Lord has planned for you if you are only thinking about your definition of you and/or 'what's in it for me'? Why we should be thinking on that which scripture directs to is that we get out of our own box and begin seeing what is happening around us, whether or not it has a direct influence on us. Another reason is that we aren't focusing on those thoughts and attitudes that typically get us in trouble. Obviously there are other reasons to think on what Philippians is saying - it will build us up.
Thinking on these things does help us to renew our minds, to focus our thought life and to continue to do those things that are pleasing. Bottom line always is... it is our choice, our decision. And also remember that scripture doesn't say we have to do this alone. The Holy Spirit is with us, strengthening and helping us to become all we can be. You are equipped and enabled to renew - but it takes time.
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