Of Use

Have you ever asked yourself... what are the requirements I need to 'possess' in order to be of any use, any value to the Lord? I have - many, many times. Somehow I suspect we all have to have minimum requirements before we can be of any use. That's my belief... not sure you would find that in scripture. So what do I think are the minimum requirements?

First is belief. Belief in Who Jesus was and is, and what He did and does. That's the start. So ... to Belief in Jesus, we have to believe that He chooses and wants to use us! Do you honestly believe He needs us to accomplish His plans? Do you believe He wants to use you? The evidence is found in Ephesians 2:1-10, but look at verse 10"

   "For we are His workmanship [His own master work, a work of art], created in Christ Jesus [reborn from above—spiritually transformed, renewed, ready to be used] for good works, which God prepared [for us] beforehand [taking paths which He set], so that we would walk in them [living the good life which He prearranged and made ready for us]."

It really isn't we who sets what/where/when of the works, we walk in those the Lord has prepared for us, chosen for us. Unbelievably, He allows us to make the decision about whether we will or won't walk according to His plan for us. Which leads to the next set of requirements: trust and obey.

There's an old gospel song that says:  

   "When we walk with the Lord in the light of His Word

    What a glory He sheds on our way!

    While we do His good will, He abides with us still

    And with all who will trust and obey

    Trust and obey, for there's no other way

    To be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey..."

Read Don Moen's lyrics and you'll see other 'things' we receive when we trust and obey. It starts with 'trust' and the response is 'obey'. Trust is a critical decision we all have to make. Do we trust the Lord with ourselves... Do we trust scripture as the final answer... Do we use our trust as the basis for our actions and obey?

I believe that there are other 'requirements' but that these 3 are the most crucial. Without them our thoughts, our words, our actions are full of hesitations, such as - is this from the Lord? Does He really mean He'll stay with us? Why, when the Lord has proven over and over His faithfulness do we doubt, and hesitate? What is it we are looking at rather than the Lord? What lies are we buying into?

I would like to believe that it is inherent in us to want to be of use, of value. And still, when faced with opportunities to do precisely that do we not immediately accept the call and say 'send me'? Do we, like Peter who took his eyes off Jesus and looked at the storm and then began to sink, do we think we'll sink? Have you ever thought of these times as opportunities to prove our faith? How many times will it take to trust? I don't believe we are of value until we act on trust and obey.

Christmas

What does this day mean for you? Do you recognize the significance? Or do you get caught up in all the attendant activities associated with the day? Are your memories warm and fulsome? Or sad and empty? Is the day focused on the reason for the day - Jesus? Or that jolly Santa? Both?

There’s a small book written by Dr. David Jeremiah, “Why the Nativity” that I would highly recommend. It asks those questions that pierce through the sometimes unthinking and superficial and force us to consider the deeper understandings and insights that this event, Jesus’ birth, represent. Why, is the question. Why to all the who, what, when, where, how questions.

For just a moment, place yourself in Jesus' understandings. Granted, it's impossible but can you from this vantage point consider all that Jesus did know and understand from His entry into this world. 

   "Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. Have this same attitude in yourselves which was in Christ Jesus [look to Him as your example in selfless humility], who, although He existed in the form and unchanging essence of God [as One with Him, possessing the fullness of all the divine attributes—the entire nature of deity], did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped or asserted [as if He did not already possess it, or was afraid of losing it]; but emptied Himself [without renouncing or diminishing His deity, but only temporarily giving up the outward expression of divine equality and His rightful dignity] by assuming the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men [He became completely human but was without sin, being fully God and fully man]. After He was found in [terms of His] outward appearance as a man [for a divinely-appointed time], He humbled Himself [still further] by becoming obedient [to the Father] to the point of death, even death on a cross. For this reason also [because He obeyed and so completely humbled Himself], God has highly exalted Him and bestowed on Him the name which is above every name,"  [Philippians 2:4-9]

Can we, even a small part of us, understand what Jesus did and why? And there wasn't a moment's hesitation on Jesus' part. He came in the form of a man because it was only a spotless man that could redeem us. Read 1 Corinthians 15:45-58, especially verse 45:

   "So it is written [in Scripture], “The first man, Adam, became a living soul (an individual);” the last Adam (Christ) became a life-giving spirit [restoring the dead to life]."  

I believe that the Nativity marks the beginning of our salvation. Yes, that is obvious but do we ponder on this incredible gift by Father and Son FOR us at Christmas? Restoration, Reconciliation began at Christmas.

Now look at how Paul approached this issue - Philippians 3:7-11. Can you say the same think about yourself. Do you count it as of no consequence what was as compared to what is now that you have made Jesus your Lord? Have you laid aside those longings, hopes, desires that were your motivators?

   "But whatever former things were gains to me [as I thought then], these things [once regarded as advancements in merit] I have come to consider as loss [absolutely worthless] for the sake of Christ [and the purpose which He has given my life]."  [v. 7]

Both the Father and the Son knew the lengths they would travel, alone, in order to bring back the opportunity for man to become who he was always intended to be. So how will you respond? What will you consider about this gift - will you accept it?

What season are you in

That's a question - do you know? We all have times of sadness, but also joy; pain, but also healing; confusion, but also confidence, deserts, but also times of learnings and good works. We have multiple kinds of seasons. Do you sense, know them when you are experiencing them? Mostly, do you learn as well as rest during those times?

Seasons are not punishments. It isn't because you do/did/didn't do something you should/shouldn't. I think they are times for us to reassess, review, refine, rest. Goodness... you need to know what season you're in, then look to the why. Remember scripture that has taught you. Know you can ask and that you will find answers.

In terms of seasons, one example:  If you have the 'doing' gene it is easy to get caught up in doing, doing, doing. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a strong advocate of application, of putting feet to what is known and understood. However, it's important to make time for input too. Actually, this is almost the opposite of the sponge approach. The sponge person takes, takes, takes but never applies what's been learned. I do think there's a 'happy' medium.  Everyone knows:

   "There is a season (a time appointed) for everything and a time for every delight and event or purpose under heaven— 
A time to be born and a time to die; A time to plant and a time to uproot what is planted. A time to kill and a time to heal; A time to tear down and a time to build up. A time to weep and a time to laugh; A time to mourn and a time to dance. A time to throw away stones and a time to gather stones; A time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing. A time to search and a time to give up as lost; A time to keep and a time to throw away. A time to [a]tear apart and a time to sew together; A time to keep silent and a time to speak. A time to love and a time to hate; A time for war and a time for peace."  [Ecclesiastes 3:1-8]

Many times we only see (feel?) the extremes. First - do you really think the Father only sees the negative things you do and say? Do they outweigh the good things? Second... think about the source of your sight (feelings) - is it condemning? criticizing? shaming? If so, then that doesn't come from the Father. Yes, He corrects and chastises but He never shames or condemns. If that's what you're thinking and/or feeling, then the source is our primary enemy. He hates us. He stands accusing us day and night to God (Revelation 12:10). And what does God do?

   "For the Lord sees not as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”  [1 Samuel 16:7b]

The Father already knows we are weak and frail, prone to danger and fear. Still, He loves us enough to give us free will to make our own decisions. But also He gives us strength and once we have accepted Jesus' Lordship - the Holy Spirit within us to do the right and resist the wrong.

Every season has pluses and minuses but we can grow, understand, apply what we learn in every situation. I realize that many people operate from the basis that they learn more from their mistakes. It really would be sad if they didn't take the time to learn from their successes too. Just as you can redirect from mistakes you can apply those aspects that do work. So learn from the season you are in. Apply what you know is pleasing to the Lord and learn those things that are not pleasing. 

A season is simply that. Once that time is over, don't regret you didn't take advantage of what you could have... but don't repeat the wasting either.

Be-lieve

  Have you ever noticed how many times the word ‘Be’ is used in scripture? Often. And I got to thinking about this and I’ve come to the following observations:

'Be' is always stated strongly. There can be no doubt when the word is used that this is something WE do… and not later, but Now. Therefore it’s relative to the context. If we are told to ‘be’ something then obviously it is something we can do. It is our choice but it’s also for Our benefit if we follow. Personally, I think it often verges on a command. If we follow we can’t turn back and do the opposite.

It’s a special word, and I would argue, used by the Lord to remind us of whose we are.

If we look at how scripture uses the word, we read:

  *be not afraid (multiple times)

  *be strong and courageous (Joshua 1:9)

  *be on your guard (1 Corinthians 16:13)   

  *be still (and know that I am God (Psalm 46:10)

  *be merciful (Luke 6:36)

There are over 100 ‘be’ references, those 5 are only the tip of The Father’s ‘be’ statements. And look at them again - some are warning, some are commands, some for comfort, some for doing. 

Be is an active word, an action as well as a mindset, attitude. Is the Lord speaking that word softly in your spirit? What is He asking of you? Remember:

     He never sets you up for failure.
     He never asks you to do something you can’t.
     He is always with you and will make a way out if you misstep.
     His favor is upon you. 

     And the most important when you don’t believe you can - if He’s telling you

       then His Word always accomplishes what He sends it forth to do. 

Be brave and courageous. Believe these words are for you.

You are so loved

Do you believe this? Do you know the truth of this? How? What's your proof!

Do you KNOW, deep down and without a doubt that the God of the Universe, the Creator, Omni in every aspect LOVES YOU! That He has gone to great lengths to tell you, to demonstrate in your life, to give you words, to show you His great love for you? Tell me, if you don’t believe/know this, why He would go to the trouble of helping you know this? Remember, He knew there was only one way to reconcile His creation to Himself. The sin that happened could only be resolved by a spotless, human life – freely given - because we would never be able to save ourselves.

You know the story of how the Creator’s Son was the only way we could be once again reconciled with our Father. Jesus was and remains the only way to salvation. It is such a small step but a gigantic gulf that separates us. But we have a way, do we choose it? Many have and will continue to live in that step of faith. Sadly, many don’t. However, if you have made Jesus your Lord – you really have a responsibility to everyone living in your world to at least share your story of salvation with them so that they can have the same opportunity. Their response is not your responsibility – it’s theirs. But your story, your experiences can be a path to their opportunity. Perhaps your story will be the seed… or maybe it will water someone else’s seeding… or maybe you’ll have the joy of leading someone to the Lord. 

Do you have to tell your story? Why wouldn’t you? But scripture does tell us in Romans 10:5-13 that yes we need to tell our story – verse 9

   “9 because if you acknowledge and confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord [recognizing His power, authority, and majesty as God], and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For with the heart a person believes [in Christ as Savior] resulting in his justification [that is, being made righteous—being freed of the guilt of sin and made acceptable to God]; and with the mouth he acknowledges and confesses [his faith openly], resulting in and confirming [his] salvation.”

That’s a promise, that’s a gift, and that’s evidence that You are Loved. He has told us precisely what we need to do and in our doing it is done, And all this is His LOVE for you.

Wounded Healer

  [I wrote, in 2015, on the issue that we are all wounded healers at least in some areas of our Christian walk, but I am building on my initial post.]

Does 'wounded healer' describe you? Or are you only wounded? Do you feel a pain that goes so deep that it seems to be beyond even touching it, almost like it is impossible to reach the bottom? Do you hold that pain close to you, hoping you aren't jarred? I remember when I first became a Christian (different from a christian) that I heard from others that Christians were the only ones that shot their wounded. Sadly, I discovered that in all too many cases this was true. 

But why? Why do we do that to our brothers and sisters? Even in the world, when someone is injured or wounded in some way, many people attempt to help the individual get to a doctor in order to receive the needed help. So, why don't we act this way toward others, especially fellow believers? Whenever the need for correction and regardless of the individual receiving the correction - anger, belittling, humiliating, and not restoring the erring brother to fellowship is never the proper action. 

If we are the wounded then our feelings become heightened during these times. The reaction of brothers and sisters can make us feel rejected or worse, betrayed. While it never is helpful, we also tend to wallow a bit in our plight. I'm not certain that the intent is to gain further commiseration, I think it's partly a method to understand what is happening and why. Why did we get wounded!?! And what is the source? The hope is in the form of another reality - we are all wounded healers. 

Look to Jesus' words:

   "I am giving you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, so you too are to love one another. By this everyone will know that you are My disciples, if you have love and unselfish concern for one another.” [John 13:34-35]

These scriptures are specific - being know by love is a wonderful 'quality' and it is a command (John 13:34 - the key to understanding this and other statements about love is to know that this love (the Greek word agape) is not so much a matter of emotion as it is of doing things for the benefit of another person, that is, having an unselfish concern for another and a willingness to seek the best for another.)

I know we are to love the brethren - Jesus' words are that His disciples would be known by their love (John 13:35). And when/if they are in error we are to correct one another (2 Timothy 2:23-26, Galatians 6:1, Colossians 3:13, and Ephesians 4:2 - among others). This is a confirmation, NOT abrogation, of our responsibility to speak the truth, especially if error is involved. While speaking the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) is the intent, it may not be perceived that way. Never an excuse.

I think the lesson(s) I've learned is that we all, in some way, may be wounded healers so I need to hear correction from others in this way. It also gives me clues about my 'how' of correcting error I see - gently, firmly, in love, and with scriptures that support the correction. 
 

Compassion

… is a verb, not a noun. We have as our example, our model - Jesus. There are many scriptures talking about Jesus showing compassion and doing something. Compassion is an action verb, it doesn’t just commiserate! Empathy is wonderful but compassion is so much more. 

Abundant Life (https://livingproof.co/what-is-biblical-compassion/#:~:text=

Compassion%20in%20the%20Bible%20can,giving%20to%20those%20in%20need.) states:

   [[ "If God is compassionate, and you are made in His image, then you too are to exhibit compassion. Have you ever felt as though you were a sheep without a shepherd? God felt compassion for you (Matthew 9:36). As a result, you have likely been moved by deep compassion. Perhaps someone has wronged you. Perhaps someone who seems undeserving needs your forgiveness. Ephesians 4:32 reminds us that we must be kind to one another, forgiving each other because Christ forgave us.

The truth of God’s compassion transforms us. When we see others who are suffering, in need, and desperate to know the love of God in a practical way, let's decide to exhibit Biblical compassion—feeling and acting in a way that displays living proof of a loving God. 

(some) Bible Verses About Biblical Compassion

“But You, O Lord, are a God full of compassion, and gracious, longsuffering and abundant in mercy and truth.”—Psalm 86:15

“Through the Lord’s mercies we are not consumed, because His compassions fail not. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.”—
Lamentations 3:22-23

“The Lord is gracious and full of compassion, slow to anger and great in mercy. The Lord is good to all, and His tender mercies are over all His works.”—
Psalm 145:8

“And the Lord passed before him and proclaimed, ‘The Lord, the Lord God, merciful and gracious, longsuffering, and abounding in goodness and truth, keeping mercy for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin…’”—Exodus 34:6-7

“Therefore, when Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who came with her weeping, He groaned in the spirit and was troubled. And He said, ‘Where have you laid him?’ They said to Him, ‘Lord, come and see.’ Jesus wept. Then the Jews said, ‘See how He loved him!’”—John 11:33-36

“And when Jesus went out He saw a great multitude; and He was moved with compassion for them, and healed their sick.”—Matthew 14:14

“Now a leper came to Him, imploring Him, kneeling down to Him and saying to Him, ‘If You are willing, You can make me clean.’ Then Jesus, moved with compassion, stretched out His hand and touched him, and said to him, ‘I am willing; be cleansed.’”—Mark 1:40-41

“Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.”—Colossians 3:12-13
 

“But the Lord was gracious to them, had compassion on them, and regarded them, because of His covenant with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, and would not yet destroy them or cast them from His presence.”—2 Kings 13:23" ]]

This gives us an understanding of what compassion is - it DOES. These verses show us how we should respond, what we can do. When you look at the Colossian verses, we see how the Father responds to us by telling us what compassion looks like: mercy, kindness, forgiving. These are all attitudes and actions we do. And this should be what we seek in our times of need. 'Oh woe's me' does sound good for a moment... but it does little to affect the need. If all you're willing to do is to cry with the other person or pat them on the back or give some trite expression - save your breath. 

Missing

Nostalgia is lovely. Reminiscing is like a warm blanket on a cold day - warm fuzzies.  The old saying goes that you can never go back home. Nonsense. In your thoughts and memories you can. Some of us remember everything - the good and the bad, some of us remember only the bad, and some of us remember only the good. I think I camp in the last remembering. Quite honestly, I love sharing the 'good old days', because for me - they were. So I have no problem sharing my 'then'.

However, they can get in our way and we miss what's happening around us right now. I really don't want to do this because right now will become that reminiscing in the years that come. What is your view of all this - are you the nostalgia type? Do you use nostalgia to replace the pain of now? I would hope for the first question and pray that the second isn't yours. Nostalgia was never meant to replace, it is to celebrate and enjoy what was.

Now is important. And, if it isn't what you want it to be, can you help create closer to what you want? And if that's also a 'no' then make nostalgia times in your day but don't get bummed by what is (when it isn't what you want) you could be missing something 'good'. 

One thing that definitely dictates the nostalgia is the people that populate the memories. If they aren't positive influencers in your life then, then they can't be now. People are really the content of the memories. But you also have to 'let them go' or all you'll do is cry over what you are missing. If you didn't miss it then (and memories kinda tell that story), you won't miss it now. 

Miss the yesterday? It's OK, just don't try and live in your yesterday missed. Let it go and make memories of now. Missing now is truly sad, and once gone, never available again. But you can stop the missing by focusing on the blessings you have in your life now. Celebrate them. 

Blessed

When I stop long enough to breathe in and breathe out, when I look, really look around me; and when I hear all the sounds that accent the sight - then I am almost overwhelmed by how blessed I am. The word tells me:

   "Blessed and worthy of praise be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms in Christ," [Ephesians 1:3]

Blessed with EVERY spiritual blessing... too often we stop at the 'punch line' only to discover that the verses that come before and/or after give us even greater understanding and appreciation. This is one of those cases. Read on:

... just as [in His love] He chose us in Christ [actually selected us for Himself as His own] before the foundation of the world, so that we would be holy [that is, consecrated, set apart for Him, purpose-driven] and blameless in His sight. In love He predestined and lovingly planned for us to be adopted to Himself as [His own] children through Jesus Christ, in accordance with the kind intention and good pleasure of His will— to the praise of His glorious grace and favor, which He so freely bestowed on us in the Beloved [His Son, Jesus Christ]. In Him we have redemption [that is, our deliverance and salvation] through His blood, [which paid the penalty for our sin and resulted in] the forgiveness and complete pardon of our sin, in accordance with the riches of His grace which He lavished on us. In all wisdom and understanding [with practical insight] He made known to us the mystery of His will according to His good pleasure, which He purposed in Christ, with regard to the fulfillment of the times [that is, the end of history, the climax of the ages]—to bring all things together in Christ, [both] things in the heavens and things on the earth." [v. 4-10]

I probably could have highlighted this entire text but I chose the ones that still astonish me that in accepting Jesus as my Lord, are part and parcel of accepting the FREE gift of salvation in Jesus. This realization enhances all that I read that become my new identity, my new me in Him. 

And still... it is my choice to accept and act on all of that as well. Astounding as that sentence is - it is true. The Creator God, who created the Universe and everything in it also granted His creation free will. We can choose to accept what He gives us, what He plans for us - all our choice. Even after we accept His gift of salvation - we can still choose to stay as babies. Remarkable. 

Why would we not accept all that He provides? Good question. There are as many reasons as there are those who don't act on who they've become, what they can do. Fear, accepting satan's lies, unsure, etc. are some of the reasons (excuses). We always can choose the higher ground or stay where we are - but goodness - our loss. 

Yes we are blessed. Yes, with every spiritual blessing. However, it is our choice to act on the blessing. You can't ignore it, you can't hide, it may be 'silent' but you know what's available. The word tells us:

   "When He saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion and pity for them, because they were dispirited and distressed, like sheep without a shepherd. Then He said to His disciples, “The harvest is [indeed] plentiful, but the workers are few. So pray to the Lord of the harvest to send out workers into His harvest.” [Matthew 9: 36-38]

Jesus had compassion and pity - do we? Will we answer His call about the harvest being plentiful but the workers few? We have been blessed... will we extend the hand of truth and freedom to others - a family member, a friend, a neighbor, a co-worker, and yes, even unto the ends of the world? It is our choice. 

Building a Relationship?

Question #1. Do you want to build a relationship with the Lord? Not… should I, could I but... want. Actually, this is the first question. Because if you don’t want to - you won’t.
#2. Do you think the Lord wants to build a relationship with you? How do you know He does or doesn't?

#3. How do you build a relationship?

Related to these questions is the following quote on a post on Facebook. I don't know who first said (wish I had).

   "God is still writing your story. Don't try to steal the pen Trust the Author."

That's brilliant because it does kind of mirror our thoughts and behaviors, whether or not we want to admit it. It's not that we don't want to build a relationship, it's more of a 'what's this going to cost me'? We do that rather than looking at what we gain. Plus... in a way you began building your relationship when you accepted Jesus as your Lord.

If your hesitation or wondering is based in the 2nd question - ask yourself why would the Lord go to all the trouble to tell us this in the Bible in so many different ways. Such as:

   "...for He has said, “I will never [under any circumstances] desert you [nor give you up nor leave you without support, nor will I in any degree leave you helpless], nor will I forsake or let you down or relax My hold on you [assuredly not]!” [Hebrews 13:5]

   "Every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above; it comes down from the Father of lights [the Creator and Sustainer of the heavens], in whom there is no variation [no rising or setting] or shadow cast by His turning [for He is perfect and never changes]."  [James 1:17]

 

   "Blessed and worthy of praise be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms in Christ,"  [Ephesians 1:3]

Those are only 3 of the hundreds of ways Father God is telling His people that He cares for them and wants to be in relationship with Him.

If your questioning is based in #3 then it's really much simpler than you might think. If you were to begin a relationship with anyone, what might you do first? Find out what they wanted, what they enjoyed doing...

   "He has told you, O man, what is good; And what does the Lord require of you

Except to be just, and to love [and to diligently practice] kindness (compassion),

And to walk humbly with your God [setting aside any overblown sense of importance or self-righteousness]?"  [Micha 6:8]

   "And Jesus replied to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment."  [Matthew 22L36-37]

                                            And

   "I am giving you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, so you too are to love one another. By this everyone will know that you are My disciples, if you have love and unselfish concern for one another.”

[Matthew 13:34-35]

This is the beginning of building a relationship. It is knowing the Father from His Word and continuing to build on your understandings. Love is always the motivation for what the Lord does and how He does it. It is the foundation to relationship.

Holidays

So, what's your opinion about holidays? For 'em or agin 'em? Most holidays are more than just a day off from work... at least for those who don't have to work holidays. When it's a Christian holiday (my definition) then there really aren't that many: Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter. And yes... there are a great many other holidays, but these 3, especially, spell f-a-m-i-l-y, at least in my world.

For a moment, look at Holidays from my perspective, my definitions. Admittedly, it is quite 'old fashion' - no apologies. First... holidays meant family. Probably should be second though. Second... holidays meant church, the avenue to praise the Lord for His hand of provision and protection. And third... holidays meant FOOD. My Mom was the world's greatest cook and she really shined during holidays. (You may argue that your Mom, Dad was the greatest cook - go for it. I just know mine was.)

Holidays meant laughter and the wonderful aromas coming from the kitchen. When it was Thanksgiving, it was a kinda dual activity with both Mom and Dad being involved, though Dad's activity was carving the turkey he never could resist cutting ever so slightly a bit of the bird 'to test it out'. Ya right. Mom would always make a mild comment about the cut letting all the juices out. It seemed to be a game they always played.

I can't even begin to talk about all the food she prepared from the homemade rolls to the apple or pumpkin or pecan (or all) desserts. And it wasn't just our family, the extended family was included which meant both Mom and Dad's Moms and my Uncle. As I look back I think I liked the times when I was much younger and we had no TV so Mom wouldn't have to try and time dinner to the halftime.

As I said... we talked, we laughed and we ate!

Christmas was even more grand. Same people, same cook. The meat dish would never be ham - that was for Easter. It wasn't chicken either - we had that or a roast on some Sundays. Sometimes it was a turkey again - but no one complained. In later years it often was a Prime Rib - and my mouth is watering so I best move on quickly. 

But in both of these holidays the salad and/or veg was typically brought by my Grandmothers. I still remember the cut up cranberries with small marshmallows and small pieces of walnut and celery with the lightest of dressings. My grand also made a ... I think it's called a Waldorf salad which was excellent too. Once in awhile one or other of the grands would try out a new recipe on us.  

Yes... holidays are more than just eating. But it's what goes on around the table as we eat. Ultimately, for me, holidays are all about having the opportunity to engage in relationship building. In this case, relationships are expressed in the holiday words and actions. All good memories. What I wouldn't give for just one holiday with yesterday blended with today. With those who have gone home to be with the Lord with those who are just beginning their journey. That will happen one day at the sound of the trumpet.

It's 2024 and we're heading into the Thanksgiving Holiday. I hope it is filled with laughter and joy, peace and hope for you. I realize that my reminiscing was rather heavy on the food end, but it inextricably tied to people and relationships.

And all that begins in our relationship with the Lord. It is our gratefulness for the Lord's hand of mercy and grace extended to us. It is the peace and joy of knowing Jesus will return... and soon and take His bride, the church, back with Him. It's the smile of welcome from a friend, the giggle from a child watching the expressions of love. And that begins the litany. If you don't know Jesus as your Lord - you can. And even if you're alone during the holidays, they can be filled with all the wonder of your salvation and the strength you receive to keep on going and touching lives with His love. Yes... we do have a great deal to be thankful for that the holidays remind us of... as long as our eyes don't stay on our condition, ourselves.

Our Faith

Look at the (multiple) times Jesus responded to His own disciples about their faith...Luke 8:25   " And He said to them, “Where is your faith [your confidence in Me]?” (That particular time was when they all were in the boat and a storm came up. Add to all this question:

   " And will not [our just] God defend and avenge His elect [His chosen ones] who cry out to Him day and night? Will He delay [in providing justice] on their behalf? I tell you that He will defend and avenge them quickly. However, when the Son of Man comes, will He find [this kind of persistent] faith on the earth?”

[Luke 18:7-8]

Do you remember the scripture telling us that we are surrounded by such a cloud of witnesses (Hebrews 11-12)? Have you ever thought about what they are doing? Just standing there? Why? What’s the and their reason? Do they poke the one next to them and say ‘… that’s going to be a disaster if they continue’, or ‘why would anyone make such a choice’, or ‘can you believe that’??? Of course they aren’t criticizing - so why are they there and what are they doing!!! If you read those chapters you see that they had placed their faith in God. But God, in His mercy, was waiting for US! So were they complaining to Him instead? No. 

The question in all this is faith. Where is our faith? I grant you that perhaps we aren't the strongest faith filled people, but how much do we need to remember the countless times the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit have acted on our behalf before we rely on the world or other secular/carnal things? So why are we such wimps (most of us, much of the time) when it comes to our faith? It isn't that we don't have evidences of the Lord's words and actions. Remember Hebrews 13:8? If He said it... it's a done deal - He'll do it. But do read both before and after the verse you're standing on... you're not just an observer or a 'bystander'.

   "For the [true] love of God is this: that we habitually keep His commandments and remain focused on His precepts. And His commandments and His precepts are not difficult [to obey]. For everyone born of God is victorious and overcomes the world; and this is the victory that has conquered and overcome the world—our [continuing, persistent] faith [in Jesus the Son of God]."  (1 John 5:3-4)

Two of the more important comments God makes about His Word:

   "So will My word be which goes out of My mouth; It will not return to Me void (useless, without result), Without accomplishing what I desire, And without succeeding in the matter for which I sent it."  [Isaiah 55:11]

   "But Jesus replied, “It is written and forever remains written, ‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes out of the mouth of God.’” [Matthew 4:4]  

And what is scripture - the WORD OF GOD. While we may not always understand or appreciate what is said, there is no room for individual determination about what is or is not IS NOT an option. Often, too, we find other scriptures that provide understanding. Point being the Bible IS the Bible and is the basis for our faith and growing in faith.  While scripture says:

   "And do not be conformed to this world [any longer with its superficial values and customs], but be [a]transformed and progressively changed [as you mature spiritually] by the renewing of your mind [focusing on godly values and ethical attitudes], so that you may prove [for yourselves] what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect [in His plan and purpose for you]. For by the grace [of God] given to me I say to everyone of you not to think more highly of himself [and of his importance and ability] than he ought to think; but to think so as to have sound judgment, as God has apportioned to each a degree of faith [and a purpose designed for service].  (Romans 12:2-3]

 [look also at Acts 3:16, Philippians 1:29, 2 Peter 1:1].

Believe it or not... I'm quoting what Google says:

   "“The measure of faith” is the same for every believer, and it is the same faith that Jesus possessed. Different believers may have developed and strengthened their faith over time and by the Word, but their faith is no different than yours. You have that same capability."

While I'm tempted to bold, highlight, italicize, underling that entire paragraph, the point would get lost in all of that. But do see that if someone else appears to have 'more' faith than you, it's because they have taken the time to continually develop and strengthen their faith. 

We ALL start from the same beginning anointing of faith. What we do with it is how we grow.

Blessed???

I discovered the following today on a FB post

   "Blessed is the crisis that made you grow, the fall that made you look to heaven, and the problem that made you look for God." [author unknown]

What do you think!? Did it make you stop, like it did me, and muse a minute or 2? What struck me is that the 'made' is the word choice. The only way a crisis will make you, grow or the fall that makes you look to heaven, or the problem that made you turn to the Lord is... ? Easy answer. WE, it's we who determine this. 

This also reminded me of a scripture that was one of those... whhhaaaatttt?!!!

   "Consider it nothing but joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you fall into various trials. Be assured that the testing of your faith [through experience] produces endurance [leading to spiritual maturity, and inner peace]. And let endurance have its perfect result and do a thorough work, so that you may be perfect and completely developed [in your faith], lacking in nothing." [James 1: 2-4]

The first time I read this I think I must have just passed over it quickly. The next few times I would suspect my reaction would have been 'you've got to be kidding' or 'there must be some explanation... I'm sure that 'joy' must have another definition'. So what is this saying? When you start diving into these 3 verses you discover that trials and testing has a product, and to be honest... WE are the benefactorees of this. 

First look at the words. Trials, testing is of OUR FAITH. That is rarely manmade and faith may play no part so these trials and testings are what is the focus. And we are the focus because our faith is one of our cornerstones. So, what are trials, testings of our faith? It is founded in our faith in Jesus - the only path to salvation - and then it is in the Word, that is true and infallible. This begins our journey of discovering the parts in our faith. Example: do you believe that you were given a gift for expression in the body? Do you know that you are blessed with every spiritual blessing?

Now look at the results of the trials, testing - these produce endurance. And what is endurance? International Standard Bible Encyclopedia says:

   "bear up under," hardship, persecution, etc. (2 Timothy 3:11; 1 Peter 2:19); "to remain under" (Hebrews 10:32; 12:2; James 1:12; 5:11); "to be strong, firm" (Hebrews 11:27); "to persevere" beneath a heavy burden (Matthew 10:22).

The Amplified defines endurance as: "...spiritual maturity, and inner peace." Why? "...so that you may be perfect and completely developed [in your faith], lacking in nothing." 

Just looking at those two explanations - I want endurance. That, dear friends, is definitely being blessed!

   "Jesus replied to them, “I assure you and most solemnly say to you, if you have faith [personal trust and confidence in Me] and do not doubt or allow yourself to be drawn in two directions, you will not only do what was done to the fig tree, but even if you say to this mountain, ‘Be taken up and thrown into the sea,’ it will happen [if God wills it]."  [Matthew 21:21]  

Further, if we return to the initial scripture and read on... see what else we are blessed in:

   "If any of you lacks wisdom [to guide him through a decision or circumstance], he is to ask of [our benevolent] God, who gives to everyone generously and without rebuke or blame, and it will be given to him. But he must ask [for wisdom] in faith, without doubting [God’s willingness to help], for the one who doubts is like a billowing surge of the sea that is blown about and tossed by the wind."  [v. 5-6]

You, I, We are the blessed.

Occupy

   "For the Son of man is come to seek and to save that which was lost. And as they heard these things, he added and spake a parable, because he was nigh to Jerusalem, and because they thought that the kingdom of God should immediately appear. He said therefore, A certain nobleman went into a far country to receive for himself a kingdom, and to return. And he called his ten servants, and delivered them ten pounds, and said unto them, Occupy till I come." [Luke 19:10-13, KJV]

Sometimes, the KJV says it exactly the way I want it heard... this is one of those times. In most versions the word 'occupy' is rendered 'do business, invest, trade, put this money to use, operate...'. However, the word 'occupy' provides a totally different mindset. The other words used instead seem to connect easier with the fact that the owner gave them money and then gave the directions. How do you connect 'occupy' with the fact that the nobleman gave them money? The connection, I believe is with the context - when the kingdom of God should appear.

The Gospels, in relating this parable, come from Matthew 24:36,44 and Mark 13:32

   "Heaven and earth [as now known] will pass away, but My words will not pass away. But of that [exact] day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son [in His humanity], but the Father alone.

"Be on guard and stay constantly alert [and pray]; for you do not know when the appointed time will come."

I believe that each day we should be attentive to the day... to not let an opportunity to be who the Lord has designed us to be, to do those things that are pleasing in His sight, to act confidently based in His Word. Yes.. we don't know the time of His return but that shouldn't be our focus. What's at hand should be our focus. I also suspect that we don't always see the multitudes of opportunities presented to us - partially because we don't see but also we may have our eyes focused where they should be. 

Personally I do believe we are in the Last Days... but we've seen countless examples of the Church thinking it could be 'any day now'. And that goes back to the time of the Disciples... if you read (Thessalonians for example), the Disciples also thought it was only moments before Jesus' return. But how were they engaged? Yes. In bringing others to a saving knowledge. They were following the command of Jesus found in Matthew 28

   "Jesus came up and said to them, “All authority (all power of absolute rule) in heaven and on earth has been given to Me. Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations [help the people to learn of Me, believe in Me, and obey My words], baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe everything that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always [remaining with you perpetually—regardless of circumstance, and on every occasion], even to the end of the age.” [18-20] 

They also remember the earlier words of Jesus [Matthew 9: 37-38] and spent their time following His directions. This is no less than what we should be doing. The occupying in my mind has a different definition... these are the times of discipling after someone gets saved. Too often they've been left to their own devices because we mature Christians haven't completed the directions.. "...make disciples of all the nations [help the people to learn of Me, believe in Me, and obey My words].

The act of 'occupying' is a high calling.

 

The Second greatest Sin

I believe that the first and greatest sin is something we, at least Christians, can agree on and it's what God gave to Moses in the first commandment: 

   "You shall have no other gods before Me." [Exodus 20:3]

Jesus explained that command when He said:

   "And Jesus replied to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. The second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself [that is, unselfishly seek the best or higher good for others].’ The whole Law and the [writings of the] Prophets depend on these two commandments.” [Matthew 22:37-40]

And it's the second that gets us in sooo much trouble. As Christians we are to put ourselves second, though it can be argued that the world places this as the first and  highest priority: 'what's in it for me', 'what about me', etc. The point is ... we ARE supposed to put ourselves second so we put others in the same category as ourselves. But do we rarely do this? We sometimes get into a 'Me-ism' state and feel oooh so deprived or misunderstood or not valued or... (fill in the blank). In this state do we do what scripture says in Matthew - love your neighbor as yourself? Hardly. I would question if we ever give anything or anyone a second thought when all our attention is on us. I've also discovered that eyes looking only inward continually bump into people and things or fall or get completely myopic. 

From a different perspective, I also believe that's why pride is such a problem. Pride was the downfall of Satan. And while we may quickly point out that we aren't trying to be God. Hmmm, then what are we attempting to do? Any and every time we place ourselves as first... what is this saying? Maybe ... do you ever say 'no' to the Father? Knowing that He wants you to do/be something, recognizing that He is the source of your free will, remembering He never asks you to do something you can't do or won't be equipped to accomplish, and that He never sets us up for failure... yet we say - no. 

When Jesus expanded on this [Matthew 23] He was indicating what the second greatest sin is, at least from my perspective, loving others as we love ourselves. 

Bottom line: do you really love those who are your 'neighbor'/other person? And... as yourself? What do your action say? For some it may be an issue of not really loving ourselves or not knowing what that means. Perhaps we're caught up in blame or unworthiness, maybe we feel shame. Is this something that's current or in your history? In a way the time isn't relevant - the only real question is.. have you sought forgiveness and do you feel sorry? If so, if you've acted on 1 John 1:9 and, if so, then walk free knowing He has cleansed you. But also know you can't use the former as an excuse.

Love is listed as the highest, best way by Paul in 1 Corinthians when he says he will show you/us a better way. Love is that better way. What kind of satisfaction do you get from not forgiving others, or revenge, or holding a grudge? You are the only participant in this - you are the one carrying the baggage. And how can you be expecting to be forgiven for what you do or say, or don't do/say? Why would the Lord forgive you when you won't forgive others?

The First greatest Sin is putting anything above God. Have you ever thought that not loving your neighbor is putting this above Him? His Word says - Love. Period.

 

Christian without Christ???

 I've had people tell me that they believe in God but that they don't believe in Jesus! Not certain how they can even begin to accomplish that.

Actually some would say that they are a Christian - though how can one be a Christian without believing in Christ??? Ohhh, they believe Jesus existed but not that He was the Son of God, our Savior and our only way to the Father. If He wasn't who He said He was and did what He did... what's the point? Then again I wonder if they don't believe that God is our Father.?! Or is it merely an excuse so they don't have to acknowledge not only Who Jesus was but What He did because they say and believe(?) they are a good person, which smacks of self sufficiency and all that is associated with that belief. 

Why do we find it so very difficult? (And how can we justify such a belief? - Personally, I can't.) I suspect we can point to many reasons why such a belief exists but mostly it comes down to the point that we want to do life... 'our way'. (And just how successful is that?) And that's just one confusion. What about - scripture is extremely clear about salvation.

   " For God did not send the Son into the world to judge and condemn the world [that is, to initiate the final judgment of the world], but that the world might be saved through Him. Whoever believes and has decided to trust in Him [as personal Savior and Lord] is not judged [for this one, there is no judgment, no rejection, no condemnation]; but the one who does not believe [and has decided to reject Him as personal Savior and Lord] is judged already [that one has been convicted and sentenced], because he has not believed and trusted in the name of the [One and] only begotten Son of God [the One who is truly unique, the only One of His kind, the One who alone can save him]." [John 3:17-18]

   "This Jesus is the stone which was despised and rejected by you, the builders, but which became the chief Cornerstone. And there is salvation in no one else; for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among people by which we must be saved [for God has provided the world no alternative for salvation].” [Acts 4:11-12]

Those are only 2 of the scriptures that describes HOW we are saved and WHO saves us. Period. Without Jesus the Christ we are still dead in our sins. DEAD. Believe only in God?

According to Google (and they ARE always right - yes?) but they say and cite their 'authority':

   "A person who believes in the existence of a god or gods is called a theist. The opposite of a theist is an atheist. 

- Dictionary.com

Theists believe in the existence of a god or gods. The word deist refers to someone who believes in God

- Wikipedia

More simply stated, Deism is the belief in the existence of God—often, but not necessarily, an impersonal and incomprehensible God...

 

Deism: The belief in God, but that God created the universe and then left it to be governed by natural laws. Deists often base their beliefs on rational thought, rather than religious authority. 

When you read those definitions, aren't you left a bit empty? What do you receive from such beliefs? But when you read the Bible you discover:

   "You believe that God is one; you do well [to believe that]. The demons also believe [that], and shudder and bristle [in awe-filled terror—they have seen His wrath]!"   [James 2:17]

Do you really want to be counted among the demons!! Why do you not realize the significance of Jesus and all He has already done for you? In Him, your sins have been nailed to His cross. In Him you are blessed. In Him you are a joint heir with Him. There are so many 'things' that are yours... in Him. Cutting off your nose to spite your face? You cannot even count yourself a Christian without accepting Christ. 

In Him, Jesus, you have everything you need. What more do you need? There is a slight caveat to becoming a Christian... Jesus comes first because He is Lord.

Success ... Failure

How many times have you heard, or said, that you learn from your mistakes, from your failures? A variation of the theme of: those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat it? Do you? Do you learn from your missteps... regardless of the attendant emotion? How about successes? Do you learn from them too? Can you say: I also learn from my accomplishments, the 'right' actions or words because if I don't... how will these positives become part of my 'modus operandi'?

I've always been a tad mystified that the 'saying' never included incorporating those aspects that enable future successes. Granted we don't need to get a 'big head' about our accomplishments but to ignore them is throwing away important information ... at least that's my thinking (and I intend to stick with it). Learning is the point and we can learn in all sorts of ways but to not learn those 'good' lessons is just plain silly.

If something has been successful - an approach, a plan, etc. - then this learning can possibly be applied to a new but similar situations. Yes? Then why not focus your learning on the positives as well as the 'life lessons'? And what about sharing with others what has worked for you when they need, or ask, for your opinion?  This isn't bragging, I think it's a form of bearing one another's burdens by helping the other person to look at (fill in the blank) from a different perspective.

Have you ever thought that sharing scriptures with another person, your experiences when you were faced with difficulties is a form of sharing your successes? It is. Look at the affect testimonies have on the listener. When you first came to the Lord, or your journey with Him as you've continued becoming you - none of those are failures. Actually it's expressing the success that came from the failure. 

If you are the only one learning and growing from failures... isn't that a failure? We never should put the other person in a 'my way or the highway' but how you moved from failure to success, how you adapted or changed your perspective - aren't these successes from failure? Please, don't be the only one that can learn from others' mistakes. 

Failures happen for all sorts of reasons. When, after the fact, we look at what happened and why, we can gain a great deal of learning. The same point can be made about success. Then again... success, like failure, is in the mind of the beholder.

Hear... Open

On your scale of priorities, where is ‘belonging’? Crucial? Important? Not really necessary? I suppose we should start with a definition first. So how would you define the word? For example: does the definition include- equality? Everyone involved is equal in standing? Everyone is equally valued? Actually, 2 different components.

When I searched the dictionary for a definition of 'belonging' it was: a close and intimate relationship. I've discussed belonging before but as I observe 'the times' it seems that this need has increased, perhaps Covid added to our separate-ness or maybe it is we've been burned by others or maybe it's a concern about identity theft... let's face it - our society isn't safe! So we distance. Unless we've had previous experience or a close person 'vouches', many people are not interacting as 'in days gone by'. And this increases the need for 'safe' belonging. 

When I sought a scriptural definition of belonging I discovered this: 'True belonging means being fully known and fully loved by God and one another.' (source unidentified) Fully. Fully known, fully loved. That is the heart of belonging. I could use other adjectives such as accepted but 'fully' is a kind of belonging is a forever reality with the Lord. It's a reliable, it's real, it forever because the Father said so.

How do You belong to/with the Lord? He is more than your creator - though that's a good start. Perhaps the questions is... do you allow yourself to belong? Do you put obstacles in your way: I'm sinful, How can the God of Creation want me, what do I need to 'give up'/change in order to belong that I don't want to give up? All sorts of 'excuses' that really are only your way to keep the Lord at arms length unless it's a crisis situation.

   "Behold, I stand at the door [of the church] and continually knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him (restore him), and he with Me." [Revelations 3:20]

I find myself using that scripture a great deal (in a number of different applications). And did you notice that it's not a one time knock and then leave but... continually knock. Did you also notice the one and only requirement you have (remember, this is said to the Christian... not an unbeliever)? Opening the door. Upon hearing, that's all anyone has to do... open the door. When you do you'll understand - you belong.

Prayer is.....

Relationship building time. Have you ever consider this? That when you pray, when you take the time to take your eyes off your world and yourself and place it on the Lord that you are building on your relationship with Him.?! And how cool is that!!! Or don't you think that we should try and build a relationship with the Lord? That somehow that thinking is disrespectful? Why? Isn't He your Father and your elder brother (joint heir)? 

In one place in scripture Jesus tells His disciples that He calls them 'friend'. Google states it this way: 

   "When Jesus tells his disciples, "You are my friends if you do what I command"  (John 15:14 ), the components of association, loyalty, and affection all appear. If one can be a friend of God or of God's Son, this friendship can extend as well to others who are also friends of God."

John 15:12-16 

   "12 This is My commandment, that you [a]love and unselfishly seek the best for one another, just as I have loved you. 13 No one has greater love [nor stronger commitment] than to lay down his own life for his friends. 14 You are my friends if you keep on doing what I command you. 15 I do not call you servants any longer, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you [My] friends, because I have revealed to you everything that I have heard from My Father. 16 You have not chosen Me, but I have chosen you and I have appointed and placed and purposefully planted you, so that you would go and bear fruit and keep on bearing, and that your fruit will remain and be lasting, so that whatever you ask of the Father in My name [as My representative] He may give to you."

If you want to build your relationship with the Lord, look at not just that Jesus called His disciples 'friends' but what this means, how it came about, and what occurs as a result of this 'status'. Probably the first question is not so much that doing so is not what the Lord wants as it is that you haven't decided that you want this?

What kind of relationship would the Lord want? Scripture has the answer. Part of it is found in the above reference - verse 15. Also, in Hosea, repeated in Matthew we see how the Lord views relationship with us>

Hosea 6:6

   "For I desire and delight in [steadfast] loyalty [faithfulness in the covenant relationship], rather than sacrifice, And in the knowledge of God more than burnt offerings." [AMP]

   "I’m after love that lasts, not more religion. I want you to know God, not go to more prayer meetings." (MSG]

This message is repeated in Matthew 9:13

   "13 Go and learn what this [Scripture] means: ‘I desire compassion [for those in distress], and not [animal] sacrifice,’ for I did not come to call [to repentance] the [self-proclaimed] righteous [who see no need to change], but sinners [those who recognize their sin and actively seek forgiveness].”

Just these 2 scriptures confirm the kind of relationship that the Lord seeks from us. He does want a relationship with us but He is also telling us what He isn't wanting. But there are others that demonstrate His Love for us and His desire to be with us. Genesis 1:26, Deuteronomy 31:8, Hebrews 13:5, Isaiah 49:16, Jeremiah 13:5 are only a few of the verses that tell us how the Creator of the Universe, our Triune God looks at us. Since the beginning He has offered relationship:

   " Behold, I stand at the door [of the church] and continually knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him (restore him), and he with Me." [Revelations 3:20]

What more do you need to know about God's attitude toward relationship. It is always your choice to choose....

Last Days?

It makes little difference if you call the 'times we're living in' as last days or end times or any other descriptive words that indicate this designation. How much does it matter to you? It should, you know. Why? Because your attitude dictates what you do with the time you have. 

I'm not getting into a discussion on pre, mid, post rapture of the church. That's a different discussion. I'm looking at the fact that all that Revelation states WILL come to pass. And ALL of us will be standing before the Judgment Seat of Christ or at the Great White Throne Judgment. You, and only you, have the ultimate decision about which of those 2 judgments you'll face. Whether or not your view of today's society is heralding the times of the end or not, your attitude will reflect how you spend that quality called time. It is a limited quantity though.  

Ever since Jesus returned to His place at the right hand of the Father people have expected His return. Why do you think the martyrs and preachers and teachers through the centuries have been so intent, so passionate about 'being about our Father's business'? Because they believed the time of Jesus' return could be at any moment. (Luke 19:11-26, 21:28)

   "26 [Jesus explained,] ‘I tell you that to everyone who has [because he valued his gifts from God and has used them wisely], more will be given; but from the one who does not have [because he disregarded his gifts from God], even what he has will be taken away."

Plus, when Jesus left this world He told His followers:

   "Do not let your heart be troubled (afraid, cowardly). Believe [confidently] in God and trust in Him, [have faith, hold on to it, rely on it, keep going and] believe also in Me. In My Father’s house are many dwelling places. If it were not so, I would have told you, because I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back again and I will take you to Myself, so that where I am you may be also." [John 14:1-3]

This is the Christian's promise. But we are to be about our Father's business for as long as we are here. I don't read anywhere in scripture about retirement. All hands are needed! Though this will sound harsh, the church was told to occupy until His return. It appears that instead of occupying we are giving it all away. And the reason? To be popular? To be 'socially correct' regardless if it is biblically correct?

When, for the Christian, we stand before our Lord and Master, Jesus, what will we say? Will we hear the words that so many of us long to hear:

  "‘...Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful and trustworthy over a little, I will put you in charge of many things; share in the joy of your master.’" [Matthew 25:23]

For Jesus to say this depends on how we have stewarded the gifts He has placed in us so that we may partner with Him in bringing many souls to Him. It was His choice to involve us - are we stewarding the gift in us? We can't afford to be shy, or stammering. The Lord never calls us to something we can't do with Him. I don't know if these are the last days... I just know that, like you, I've been called to Follow. 

   "“...The harvest is [indeed] plentiful, but the workers are few. So pray to the Lord of the harvest to send out workers into His harvest.” [Matthew 9:37-38]

Follow

Who? How? Why? These 3 questions need answering before one acts on following. 

'Why' is the basis for our 'who' and 'how' and 'What' is the reason and foundation for our why. Fundamentally, we need to have meaning, purpose in the reason. The result is a willing following that has foundation. Does that mean a giving up of who we are, our goals and plans? Absolutely not. It does provide that foundation for our who, goals, plans.

Do realize, though, that there is a difference between being a follower and following, at least in my world. Without belief, trust in who or what you are following there's little substance to being a follower. In the case of Jesus, He gave 8 invitations:

According to standard95.com Jesus Invites Men into a new way of Life. Here are 7 invitations He makes to all men. (Though this site doesn't say this, I tend toward the scripture Galatians 3:28 and whatever is said is applied to all)

"1.  Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest! -Matthew 11:28

2.  Jesus stood and cried, saying ... if any man thirst let him COME unto Me, and DRINK...  -John 7:37 

3.  Jesus said unto them, "COME and DINE!"  -John 21:12 

4.  Come and See  -John 1:39  

5.  Come and Take up your cross  -Mark 10:21

6.  Come away to a secluded place and rest  -Mark 6:31

7.  Come you blessed of my father and inherit the Kingdom -Matthew 25:34,

When Jesus calls men to Himself He says 2 words, “FOLLOW ME.” When Jesus find Peter He says follow me. "Follow me" is the first and last words Jesus physically spoke to Peter.

8.  To follow in Hebrew does not mean to walk behind me, it means to do what I do.

Rabbis had followers and they taught them how to do what they do. Followers do what that rabbis taught them, they do what they saw Jesus do. A follower was known as a disciple. In an old-world paradigm Rabbi’s and others wanted disciples for themselves, just like we want “followers” on social media. 

The real translation of disciple was a disciplined learner, an active participant. This is what the followers of Jesus are known as, disciples – participants and partakers.

Throughout scripture There are many designations of the Lord’s servants

  Bond-slaves of Jesus Christ

  Ministers of Christ

  Stewards of the mystery

  Fellow workers

ALL of these titles carry the meaning of delegated responsibility. In Hebrews 3:1 we are called "partakers"

 

These are invitations promises that are available to everyone. But a condition is you have to be hungry. Only those who are hungry are satisfied, only those who are thirsty drink."

A Follower? How do you Follow?