Closed?

 Closed... perhaps a definition wouldn’t go amiss. In this context (and yes, I know I haven’t provided a context - I will) - this is more of a: if you aren’t defining words, especially big words, how I learned and understood them and it's contrary to what you are saying -  then you’re wrong! Context: scripture and how we are and do Christianity. May I gently suggest that if your ‘teacher’ was a human then there’s every possibility they, you could be wrong... or if there's a 'not completely right' category, then that designation. Also… I really think scripture can easily defend itself - typically by providing other scriptures that confirm it.

A couple of things I've learned: never, as in ever, assume your definition is a one and done - there could be layers to understanding. Don't ever be arrogant about what you know (or think you know). Practice the attitude of an attentive student. Contemplate what you receive if you are 'closed' - when you don't allow questions or challenges or opportunities to expand your understandings. 

Obviously, there are aspects that should be a 'close' such as the fact that Jesus was fully human and fully God. 

   "Beloved, do not believe every spirit [speaking through a self-proclaimed prophet]; instead test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets and teachers have gone out into the world. By this you know and recognize the Spirit of God: every spirit that acknowledges and confesses [the fact] that Jesus Christ has [actually] come in the flesh [as a man] is from God [God is its source]; and every spirit that does not confess Jesus [acknowledging that He has come in the flesh, but would deny any of the Son’s true nature] is not of God; this is the spirit of the antichrist, which you have heard is coming, and is now already in the world." [1 John 4:1-3]

That there aren't many paths to God. He has made it abundant clear that there's only one, [1] way to God and that is through His Son, Jesus. That the Bible is a love story from God to His creation, His people. That the Bible has everything that speaks to His creation (us) living, working, who we are, how we should go about being us, etc. That the Holy Spirit is the one who determines and gives us our gifting. I could on in this vein, but I think the context makes it especially blatant. There are certain obvious issues that are settled, that are closed. But closed doesn't mean you can't ask questions. When our motivation is understanding, I don't believe this angers God. 

I ask you what you believe is 'closed'. It's important to know the foundation for what we believe, why we believe, and what we do about our belief. Closed can mean a way of sharing eternal truths are are immutable because that identifies our foundation. Closed is only an unfortunate choice when the subject is one that doesn't have universal definition based in scripture. I believe that Closed mean a security of finality.

Seed

 Should I have written an 's' at the end? 

   "While the earth remains, Seedtime and harvest, Cold and heat, Winter and summer, And day and night Shall not cease.” [Genesis 8:22]

   [Jesus parable teaching] "... a sower went out to sow [seed in his field]; and as he sowed, some seed fell beside the road [between the fields], and the birds came and ate it. Other seed fell on rocky ground, where they did not have much soil; and at once they sprang up because they had no depth of soil. But when the sun rose, they were scorched; and because they had no root, they withered away. Other seed fell among thorns, and thorns came up and choked them out. Other seed fell on good soil and yielded grain, some a hundred times as much [as was sown], some sixty [times as much], and some thirty. He who has ears [to hear], let him hear and heed My words.” " [Matthew 13:3b-9] 

HOWEVER, for understanding read verses 10-14.

   "but God [all the while] was causing the growth. So neither is the one who plants nor the one who waters anything, but [only] God who causes the growth. He who plants and he who waters are one [in importance and esteem, working toward the same purpose]; but each will receive his own reward according to his own labor. For we are God’s fellow workers [His servants working together]; you are God’s cultivated field [His garden, His vineyard], God’s building." 

[1 Corinthians 3: 6b-9]

There are other scriptures that discuss seed(s), roles, etc. Actually my question is - if you are seed scattering... what are you scattering? Most of the time we seem to focus on having seeds, being in the role based on where the person you are talking with seems to be, but what about how we speak depending on where that person is? Do we know what we can/should share? Or do you think I'm overthinking? 

Another way of looking at this is ... how do You do evangelism? If your response is that being an evangelist is not your calling. Not the question. Isn't every Christian called to be a spokesman, an Ambassador for Jesus, to share the Good News? At least my Bible says we all are. You may not be called to the office of an evangelist, but everyone is called to share the saving news.

   "But in your hearts set Christ apart [as holy—acknowledging Him, giving Him first place in your lives] as Lord. Always be ready to give a [logical] defense to anyone who asks you to account for the hope and confident assurance [elicited by faith] that is within you, yet [do it] with gentleness and respect. And see to it that your conscience is entirely clear, so that every time you are slandered or falsely accused, those who attack or disparage your good behavior in Christ will be shamed [by their own words]. For it is better that you suffer [unjustly] for doing what is right, if that should be God’s will, than [to suffer justly] for doing wrong." [1 Peter 3:15-17]

Typically all we hear is the second sentence in 1 Peter 3: 15. But these 2 verses are so much more. Verse 15 gives us our grounding, our confidence to speak. At the end of the verse is the manner in which we should share. Verse 16 is an 'examination' verse - we need to know what our relationship is how it's supposed to be because this also affects how and what we share. Verse 17 may seem to be a hard pill to swallow but we aren't alone in this - look at all the people who have gone before us that thought Jesus was far more important than our 'justice'.

Never forget that your words, your behavior, how you go about being and doing you are all visible seeds. They may also be a comfort for fellow Christians who need confidence. Did you ever consider that you are a seed?

THE Name

JESUS

Some call Him Master... so do I. Some call Him Savior... so do I. Some call Him Lord... so do I. His name is - JESUS.

As the song says… ‘There’s just something about that name… Master, Savior…. Jesus, like the fragrance after the rain.” Is that what you think when you hear - Jesus? Do you follow the descriptions scripture provides? 

One interpretation [karengirlfriday.com] says:

   "We describe Jesus as: love, mercy, peace, hope, grace, truth, freedom, kindness, joy, victory."

She also uses scripture to 'flesh out' the descriptions. I have no problem with her delineation... it begins our understanding. But the Bible is rich from Genesis through Revelation in it's descriptions. The Bible is really all about Jesus, all about who He is, what He does, how He does it, what it represents for us. I'm not going to indicate all of the descriptions, but I do want to highlight a few of them to show us the FULLNESS of Jesus.

1. Savior - Acts 4:10-12

   "Let it be known and understood by all of you, and by the whole house of Israel, that in the name and through the power and authority of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, Whom you crucified, [but] Whom God raised from the dead, in Him and by means of Him this man is standing here before you well and sound in body. This [Jesus] is the Stone which was despised and rejected by you, the builders, but which has become the Head of the corner [the Cornerstone]. And there is salvation in and through no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by and in which we must be saved."

There may be many paths to get to Jesus, but once there - there is no other path! He is The Way... The Truth... and The Light. John 14:6 says:

   "Jesus said to him, I am the Way and the Truth and the Life; no one comes to the Father except by (through) Me."

This puts a period. These verses give us the foundation for Jesus and relationships.

2. High Priest - Hebrews 4:14-16

   "Inasmuch then as we have a great High Priest Who has [already] ascended and passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession [of faith in Him]. For we do not have a High Priest Who is unable to understand and sympathize and have a shared feeling with our weaknesses and infirmities and liability to the assaults of temptation, but One Who has been tempted in every respect as we are, yet without sinning. Let us then fearlessly and confidently and boldly draw near to the throne of grace (the throne of God’s unmerited favor to us sinners), that we may receive mercy [for our failures] and find grace to help in good time for every need [appropriate help and well-timed help, coming just when we need it].

Jesus is still interceding on our behalf. He is still involved when we come to Him for mercy and grace.

3. Purpose for Coming. lay down divinity, purpose in John 3:16+. 

I don't know about you, but I definitely have difficulty getting my head around the fact of knowing that I would be tortured and killed. Yet that is exactly what our Lord knew and did.

   "For God so [greatly] loved and dearly prized the world, that He [even] gave His [One and] only begotten Son, so that whoever believes and trusts in Him [as Savior] shall not perish, but have eternal life." [John 3:16]

I doubt that there's anyone that doesn't know this verse - believer and non-believer alike. But this verse is only the beginning. Too often we aren't even aware of the verses that come next.

"For God did not send the Son into the world to judge and condemn the world [that is, to initiate the final judgment of the world], but that the world might be saved through Him. Whoever believes and has decided to trust in Him [as personal Savior and Lord] is not judged [for this one, there is no judgment, no rejection, no condemnation]; but the one who does not believe [and has decided to reject Him as personal Savior and Lord] is judged already [that one has been convicted and sentenced], because he has not believed and trusted in the name of the [One and] only begotten Son of God [the One who is truly unique, the only One of His kind, the One who alone can save him]. This is the judgment [that is, the cause for indictment, the test by which people are judged, the basis for the sentence]: the Light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil. For every wrongdoer hates the Light, and does not come to the Light [but shrinks from it] for fear that his [sinful, worthless] activities will be exposed and condemned. But whoever practices truth [and does what is right—morally, ethically, spiritually] comes to the Light, so that his works may be plainly shown to be what they are—accomplished in God [divinely prompted, done with God’s help, in dependence on Him].” [v.17-21]

The NAME of Jesus is powerful and provides us with truth... because HE is the way and the life.

 

The Fullness of Thankful

    “I am so thankful that l have a joy that the world can not rob me of; I have a treasure that the world can not take from me; I have something that is not in the power of man or devil to deprive me of, and that is the joy of the Lord.”

Those words were spoken by D.L. Moody. His thoughts spoke to me and resonated. My question… how full is our thankfulness! Can we say we are FULL of thanksgiving? Do we look at our joy and treasure with eyes of thankfulness? And... how do you express your thankfulness?

Those aren't idle questions. They really go to the heart of who we are and how we see the Lord's hand in our lives. The words in Hebrews tell us:

   "Therefore let us [with privilege] approach the throne of grace [that is, the throne of God’s gracious favor] with confidence and without fear, so that we may receive mercy [for our failures] and find [His amazing] grace to help in time of need [an appropriate blessing, coming just at the right moment]."  [4:16]

You really can't come with this attitude, assurance if you don't know the person you are coming to and the relationship you have together. This speaks of a confidence that you know and appreciate who you seek... plus knowledge based in experience. 

There's also a parable in Luke that's relevant:

   " Then He said to them, “Suppose one of you has a friend, and goes to him at midnight and says, ‘Friend, lend me three loaves [of bread]; for a friend of mine who is on a journey has just come to visit me, and I have nothing to serve him’;  and from inside he answers, ‘Do not bother me; the door has already been shut and my children and I are in bed; I cannot get up and give you anything.’ I tell you, even though he will not get up and give him anything just because he is his friend, yet because of his persistence and boldness he will get up and give him whatever he needs." [Luke 11:5-8]

For the person asking, seeking this parable implies a relationship that he knows he will receive from his friend what is needed. Now take that same thought, that same attitude and apply it to when you seek the Lord. Do you come with confidence based on your relationship?

Back to Moody's words. He is speaking with confidence and knowledge of his relationship with the Lord. And he is telling us that it brings him such joy that he is full of thankfulness. Personally... I want that depth, breath of relationship with Jesus that I know that I can always come. And with outstretched hands He is welcoming me. Joy! Priceless.

   "And do not be worried, for the joy of the Lord is your strength and your stronghold." [Nehemiah 8:10b]

Boundaries

Who’s in charge of your boundaries and limits? Are you? If you are a Christian, is it the Word? Does your job place limits on you? How about your family? Maybe those boundaries and limits are impacted (determined) by your income, your education or training or experience? How about your character? The people you associate with? Your behavior? I could continue to create the list of those aspects that influence those limits and boundaries. Some are easily answered… some not so much.

Back to the first question… regardless of what or where your boundaries are - who sets them? And equally important- did you first give them the authority to do so? Do they have your best interests at heart? Do you trust ‘them’? What does scripture say about boundaries? 

According to 'Got Questions':

   "A boundary is a “dividing line.”  ...  In interpersonal relationships, a boundary is what divides one person from another, so that each can have separate identities, responsibilities, and privileges. A boundary creates necessary “space” between individuals. Healthy boundaries define expectations and show respect for others.

Biblically speaking, boundaries are related to self-control. The Bible commands us to control ourselves, whereas our human nature desires to control others (Titus 2:12). If left unchecked, our natural desires run roughshod over others. Personal boundaries help to limit our selfish inclination to control or manipulate others. Likewise, boundaries protect us from those who have no self-control and who wish to control us. A person with clear, healthy boundaries communicates to others what is and is not permissible, saying, in effect, “This is my jurisdiction, and you have no right to interfere.”

Help limit... protect us. This is what boundaries are designed to do. They aren't there for show. And while they limit our selfishness... they also protect us from those who wish to control us. We use strong words to define boundaries. Quoting Got Question's response: "Boundaries can be used in healthy ways and sinful ways. The way to know which boundaries are godly is to examine the motive." And therein lies the rub - motive. 

Our motives are the facilitators of boundaries. They also guide us when we don't use them as excuses.

   "Proper boundaries aid believers in keeping out worldly influences. (2 Corinthians 6:14). Simply, we are not to embrace the world’s way of doing things (James 4:4). Boundaries are about taking responsibility for our own lives. God gives us freedom to choose to live within His boundaries or outside of them, and to live outside of God’s boundaries means to accept the consequences. Living inside God’s boundaries brings blessing, and living outside of them brings destruction and death (Romans 6:23)."

I couldn't have said it better... Got Questions gives us concepts to consider as we develop our boundaries. I would hazard a guess that if we don't set our own boundaries with scriptural help, others will attempt to set them for us. As Christians we have a freedom than only a Jesus follower has because we aren't without His help to create boundaries that enable not bind.

Ready?

   " Therefore, be on the alert [be prepared and ready], for you do not know the day nor the hour [when the Son of Man will come]." [Matthew 25:13]

He will return. He said so, scripture says so and in a number of places. It never was an 'if', it's always been a 'when'. Then again... maybe you don't believe in the rapture of the church...? Granted, the word is not in scripture, but what is it Thessalonians say?

   "For we say this to you by the Lord’s [own] word, that we who are still alive and remain until the coming of the Lord, will in no way precede [into His presence] those [believers] who have fallen asleep [in death]. For the Lord Himself will come down from heaven with a shout of command, with the voice of the archangel and with the [blast of the] trumpet of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first.  

Then we who are alive and remain [on the earth] will simultaneously be caught up (raptured) together with them [the resurrected ones] in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will always be with the Lord! Therefore comfort and encourage one another with these words [concerning our reunion with believers who have died]. [1 Thessalonians 4:15-18]

The Amplified does go back to the original and describe 'caught up' as raptured. Do you not believe in this? Have you chosen to ignore one of the greatest events in Christianity? And if your argument is that we will go through the tribulation... then how do you explain:

   "But since we [believers] belong to the day, let us be sober, having put on the breastplate of faith and love, and as a helmet, the hope and confident assurance of salvation. For God has not destined us to [incur His] wrath [that is, He did not select us to condemn us], but to obtain salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ, who died [willingly] for us, so that whether we are awake (alive) or asleep (dead) [at Christ’s appearing], we will live together with Him [sharing eternal life].

[5:8-10]

It does not say we will have to endure His wrath for a season... or for the duration of the display of God's wrath. If you decide you know best and skip over the 'rapture'... then on to the second coming? Consider the following verses:

1. Matthew 24:36–44

“But concerning that day and hour no one knows, not even the angels of heaven, nor the Son, but the Father only. For as were the days of Noah, so will be the coming of the Son of Man.  

2. Luke 21:25–28

“And there will be signs in sun and moon and stars, and on the earth distress of nations in perplexity because of the roaring of the sea and the waves, people fainting with fear and with foreboding of what is coming on the world. For the powers of the heavens will be shaken. And then they will see the Son of Man coming in a cloud with power and great glory. 

3. John 5:28–29

Do not marvel at this, for an hour is coming when all who are in the tombs will hear his voice and come out, those who have done good to the resurrection of life, and those who have done evil to the resurrection of judgment. 

4. 1 Thessalonians 4:16–17

For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will always be with the Lord. 

5. Revelation 1:7

Behold, he is coming with the clouds, and every eye will see him, even those who pierced him, and all tribes of the earth will wail on account of him. Even so. Amen.  

6. Hebrews 9:27–28

And just as it is appointed for man to die once, and after that comes judgment, so Christ, having been offered once to bear the sins of many, will appear a second time, not to deal with sin but to save those who are eagerly waiting for him.  

7. Matthew 24:26–31

“So, if they say to you, ‘Look, he is in the wilderness,’ do not go out. If they say, ‘Look, he is in the inner rooms,’ do not believe it. For as the lightning comes from the east and shines as far as the west, so will be the coming of the Son of Man. Wherever the corpse is, there the vultures will gather.

Immediately after the tribulation of those days...

8. 1 Thessalonians 5:1–3

Now concerning the times and the seasons, brothers, you have no need to have anything written to you. For you yourselves are fully aware that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night. While people are saying, “There is peace and security,” then sudden destruction will come upon them as labor pains come upon a pregnant woman, and they will not escape. Read More

9. 1 Corinthians 15:51–52

Behold! I tell you a mystery. We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed. R 

10. John 14:1–3

“Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me. In my Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also.”  

 The credit for this compilation belongs to Crossway. They also go into further depth on each of these points.

So... are you challenged, confirmed or confused? The days we live in now point even stronger that we are so very close - and yes, I know every century seems to say this. Does it matter? Yes. How will the Lord find us when He comes because it is unmistakable He is returning. I remember my Mom being concerned about this. She didn't feel worthy enough (this was over 37 years ago since she found her answer). The scripture

   

   "But He replied, ‘I assure you and most solemnly say to you, I do not know you [we have no relationship]." [Matthew 25:12]

I have no doubt that Mom found her answer: I think, without a doubt that she discovered her concern answered as she found herself in the presence of the Lord. 'Doing things' for the Lord really does come after our relationship with Him. He seeks worshippers (John 4:24). He seeks! Can we not do our part in this? He tells us what He wants...

   "Therefore I urge you, brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies [dedicating all of yourselves, set apart] as a living sacrifice, holy and well-pleasing to God, which is your rational (logical, intelligent) act of worship."  [Romans 12:1]

Are you ready?

Christian

Do you understand what you are saying when you say you are a Christian?! You have just aligned yourself with Jesus and who He says He is. You are also His representative. Does what you say or do (or don’t do) reflect Him and His who/what/how? Or, is your representing only what you deem important? Is ‘can’t’ a quick response from you?

Being a Christian isn't for cowards. Being a Christian does mean that you live in a kind of a fishbowl in that with your proclamation you now are visible and your words and actions take on a heightened meaning. You can't be OF the world and still be a Christian.

   "If the world hates you [and it does], know that it has hated Me before it hated you. If you belonged to the world, the world would love [you as] its own and would treat you with affection. But you are not of the world [you no longer belong to it], but I have chosen you out of the world. And because of this the world hates you. Remember [and continue to remember] that I told you, ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted Me, they will also persecute you. If they kept My word, they will keep yours also. But they will do all these [hurtful] things to you for My name’s sake [because you bear My name and are identified with Me], for they do not know the One who sent Me."  [John 15:18-21]

Though there are other scriptures that talk about the Christian being IN the world but not OF it. But these verses in John paint a more complete picture. Our allegiance, identification with Jesus marks us out. And yes, it isn't always easy but look at what you receive with your identification!

In 1 Peter, he is telling the reader:

   "Come to Him [the risen Lord] as to a living Stone which men rejected and threw away, but which is choice and precious in the sight of God. You [believers], like living stones, are being built up into a spiritual house for a holy and dedicated priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices [that are] acceptable and pleasing to God through Jesus Christ.  [1 Peter 2: 4-5]      ...

Why?

   "But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a consecrated nation, a [special] people for God’s own possession, so that you may proclaim the excellencies [the wonderful deeds and virtues and perfections] of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light. Once you were not a people [at all], but now you are God’s people; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy."   [1 Peter 2:9-10]

Do you that you are being built up? Are you grasping the opportunity and growing to offer spiritual sacrifices? Have you accepted the identity offered? Do you feel you are chosen? Chosen to be a royal priesthood, a consecrated nation, a special people to proclaim the excellencies of Him who called you out of darkness into light? This is how Peter describes Christian. What are you doing to embody this identity?

What you need to realize is the potentiality that is offered you. Then again... I have difficulty imagining a small c -Christian. Do they really exist? Or have they simply not stepped up and said - 'Here am I... with my mouth I confess and with my heart I believe.'

 

Distance

 Recently I heard a friend's testimony and she referred to the '16 inches'. Explaining further she said it can be the most difficult distance there is. It's not just a distance between head and heart - it's a lifestyle. Further intrigued I came across this:

   "The distance between the head and the heart, in terms of physical location in the body, is roughly 18 inches, according to some sources. However, when referring to the distance between the mind and the emotions, it is often described as the longest journey a person can take, emphasizing the difficulty of translating intellectual understanding into heartfelt action."

I have to credit the unknown Google source for this statement. And yet.... there can be a long journey between head and heart. Some of us are mind based. We use the mind as our filter. Others are emotion driven and it's their feelings that determine their filter. I have a feeling that it is a combination of both head and heart for most people. Do you know which of the 3 defines you?

Quoting Google again:

   "In some spiritual contexts, the 18 inches can be interpreted as the difference between intellectual belief and genuine faith. It suggests that true transformation and connection with a higher power requires more than just mental assent; it requires a heart-felt commitment, according to some sources."

In case there's any doubt... the 'higher power' is God. So how does scripture say about these two forces within us? Does scripture suggest a preference? How did Jesus respond to this 'tug'? When Jesus was with His disciples Peter asked Him about the explanation of one of His parables that might give us His view:

   "But whatever [word] comes out of the mouth comes from the heart, and this is what defiles and dishonors the man. For out of the heart come evil thoughts and plans, murders, adulteries, sexual immoralities, thefts, false testimonies, slanders (verbal abuse, irreverent speech, blaspheming). These are the things which defile and dishonor the man;” [Matthew 15:18-20a]

   "... For the mouth speaks out of that which fills the heart. The good man, from his [inner] good treasure, brings out good things; and the evil man, from his [inner] evil treasure, brings out evil things." [Matthew 12:34b-35]

I think that's why we hear the plea in Psalm 51:10

   "Create in me a clean heart, O God, And renew a right and steadfast spirit within me."

We do know but do we? Do we realize what happened when we were born again? Not just the wonderful gifts that the Lord planned for those who accepted Him but us - who we are, who we can become... what we can do. What is crucial for us to realize is that for some of us we need to close the 18 inches gap between head and heart. But also, we don't do this alone - the Lord is always available to assist us. Now look at John and what we receive in this process:

   "...He who believes in Me [who adheres to, trusts in, and relies on Me], as the Scripture has said, ‘From his innermost being will flow continually rivers of living water." [John 7:38]

The distance shortened we become carriers of living waters for others in order to give them a cup of cold water.

Examine... next: ALL facets

 For a 'Part 2' I'm going to set out a list of questions/statements and then try and speak to each.

  1. ALL facets of one's person need to be included

  2. Who you are that you are seen as

  3. Who do you want to be remember as

  4. What you are willing to pay to grow and not grow

  5. The connection between desire and fact

  6. The connection between calling and fact

I think I would argue that the first step in 'examine' is identifying. All of who you are. The good. The not so good. The definite bad. We all have these in our DNA and definitely in our character. I suspect that we lament as Paul did - do read all of these verses, but I'm going to highlight certain parts in light of our 'examining' Romans 7:15-25

   "15 For I do not understand my own actions [I am baffled and bewildered by them]. I do not practice what I want to do, but I am doing the very thing I hate [and yielding to my human nature, my worldliness—my sinful capacity].  ...

18 For I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my flesh [my human nature, my worldliness—my sinful capacity]. For the willingness [to do good] is present in me, but the doing of good is not. 19 For the good that I want to do, I do not do, but I practice the very evil that I do not want. 20 But if I am doing the very thing I do not want to do, I am no longer the one doing it [that is, it is not me that acts], but the sin [nature] which lives in me. ...

22 For I joyfully delight in the law of God in my inner self [with my new nature], 23 but I see a different law and rule of action in the members of my body [in its appetites and desires], waging war against the law of my mind and subduing me and making me a prisoner of the law of sin which is within my members. 

24 Wretched and miserable man that I am! Who will [rescue me and] set me free from this body of death [this corrupt, mortal existence]? 25 Thanks be to God [for my deliverance] through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, on the one hand I myself with my mind serve the law of God, but on the other, with my flesh [my human nature, my worldliness, my sinful capacity—I serve] the law of sin."

This is what we all have to deal with. Part of our warfare is really internal - with ourselves. The point should be - we are NOT alone in this battle. Read again verses 24-25. Do you see that we are aided in this by the Lord? He wants to engage with us - not do it to us. Remember He has created us with Free Will, and that is no small thing, He will always allow us to make our decision. I would also suggest that this is so fundamental, so crucial to our relationship as well as to who we are becoming, that we can't treat this cavalierly. We don't just toss a prayer in the air: Please God help me (fill in the blank) and then go merrily on our way. 

Which leads to point 1: ALL facets of one's person need to be included. I would argue that we have bought into a mindset that tells us we learn more from our mistakes. While we DO learn from our mistakes, we also learn from our successes. How can we build on a strong foundation (success) is as valuable as learning what not to do. Let me ask you - how often do you assess, examine your successes? Do you use them as a basis for further success? Are we going to throw away those words, actions, mindsets, etc. that do work? And our logic????

Examining our who, what, why, when, how is crucial to our growth but it's all of us and as the old song goes... '... you gotta accent the positive, eliminate the negative...' Sometimes our greatest understandings come from analyzing our positives - it definitely makes easier our ability and understanding to analyze our negatives and improve and learn from them.

A force to be reckoned with

Do you realize that is a description of YOU? You know that you were wonderfully and fearfully made … that the God of the universe breathed the breath of life into you which means that He breathed some of Himself into you. Now the only question is - what are you doing with your earthly inheritance?

One extremely easy thing to do is to discover if those around you are in fact saved when they say they are. They could be operating under, what I consider, one of the greatest lies satan has every perpetrated. Church going does not necessarily mean someone is saved even though they may think so. 

   "Jesus answered, “I assure you and most solemnly say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit he cannot [ever] enter the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh [the physical is merely physical], and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Do not be surprised that I have told you, ‘You must be born again [reborn from above—spiritually transformed, renewed, sanctified].’ The wind blows where it wishes and you hear its sound, but you do not know where it is coming from and where it is going; so it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit.” [John 3:1-8]

Jesus is who said this! Shouldn't we follow what He says rather than what man has proposed? Jesus went on to teach:

   "For God so [greatly] loved and dearly prized the world, that He [even] gave His [One and] only begotten Son, so that whoever believes and trusts in Him [as Savior] shall not perish, but have eternal life. For God did not send the Son into the world to judge and condemn the world [that is, to initiate the final judgment of the world], but that the world might be saved through Him. Whoever believes and has decided to trust in Him [as personal Savior and Lord] is not judged [for this one, there is no judgment, no rejection, no condemnation]; but the one who does not believe [and has decided to reject Him as personal Savior and Lord] is judged already [that one has been convicted and sentenced], " [v 16-18a]

This should be crystal clear with no misunderstandings. If, however, further proof is needed there is always the writings in Romans 3, 5, 6, 10

   "... since all have sinned and continually fall short of the glory of God,
[3:23]
  " For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God [that is, His remarkable, overwhelming gift of grace to believers] is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord" [6:23]

   "But God clearly shows and proves His own love for us, by the fact that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

[5:8]

   "... if you acknowledge and confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord [recognizing His power, authority, and majesty as God], and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. 

For with the heart a person believes [in Christ as Savior] resulting in his justification [that is, being made righteous—being freed of the guilt of sin and made acceptable to God]; and with the mouth he acknowledges and confesses [his faith openly], resulting in and confirming [his] salvation."

[10:9-10]

   " For “whoever calls on the name of the Lord [in prayer] will be saved.”

[10:13]

We can also add the words spoken by Peter on the day of Pentecost when the Holy Spirit descended:

   " And there is salvation in no one else; for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among people by which we must be saved [for God has provided the world no alternative for salvation].”

[Acts 4:12]

Now, in any of those words from the Lord say anything about Church going? Yes, in another part of scripture it does tell us not to forsake the gathering together (Hebrews 10:25), but that is the gift we get the pleasure of enjoying after salvation. 

Church going, fellowshipping is important for us all. It's where we learn, grow, get healed, understood, share our gifting and so much more. But it is what comes from salvation. Salvation is the beginning. And most certainly is a force to be reckoned with when applied. So how do you know if the person sitting next to you is saved? A very simple question. Turn to them and ask - would you share your testimony with me... testimonies always encourage me in my here on earth journey. If they won't then 10 times out of 10 they aren't saved and you have a chance to be a seed planter - share your testimony.

Not Right

Have you ever been in a season where you felt that if it were possible to do the wrong thing or say the wrong thing (especially to the wrong person) that you were in this time? That it seems no matter what you are engaged in - it all goes plop? Do you feel like you are running after yourself, apologizing for whatever you did that you shouldn't have? Yep! Been there too... and I seem to be back there - again. 

Now what? What is it you can do?

I might suggest that one of the first things to do is to review - was there something you should have done that you didn't or haven't yet? Or, conversely, something you did do that you shouldn't have but that you've done nothing to reconcile that? However, there are also those times that you really can't do or say anything, it is your changed behavior that needs to be in evidence (which always requires time). 

Saying 'sorry' when there's no change in behavior (stemming from a changed attitude) is only words. I also believe that if this is typical and recognized behavior is usually dismissed by others as well.

The point? There are times in our lives when you can feel like running away and hiding. Persevering is probably the only thing that can be done. But... what is persevering? According to one source

   "In a scriptural context, persevering means to steadfastly continue in faith and practice despite trials, temptations, and difficulties. It's about maintaining a course of action, holding firmly to a purpose, and not giving up in the face of adversity. It encompasses endurance in faith, obedience to God, and a commitment to remain devoted even when faced with hardship." [Google]

Look at: maintaining, holding firmly, not giving up, endurance, obedience, commitment. Perhaps it's a time of testing? This is a dig deep time. It's a time to 'strengthen the arms that hang down'. Persevering is crucial. And in doing this we should analyze what is going on. Are we in a time of teaching? Are we in a time of applying our learning? Are we being chastised (this is not necessarily punishment - our attitude about this makes the difference)?

Not right? Perhaps... but maybe it's so much more - an opportunity to stop and know the who, what, why, when, and how we are who we are in our world.

Earthly good?

There’s a charge that is often leveled against Christians: ‘They’re too heavenly minded to be of any earthly good.’ I believe that unless you are heavenly minded, you can’t be of any earthly good! Besides, the accusation sounds like patronizing claptrap. I suspect we need to know what the charge is referencing - what is heavenly minded and why is this of no earthly good. Have you ever accused someone of this… and did you know what you were saying? To quiet them?

We live in a fallen world, so how can one be 'earthly good'. Oxymoron? And why would this be a good goal in the first place? To be honest, I get incredibly tired of these dismissive, undefined worldly statements that far too many adhere to or feel embarrassed about. How do we sometimes buy into the lie and begin apologizing for who we are and Whose we are? If we're trying to impress the world then we're accenting the wrong sy-lla-ble. 

Ironically, the only way we can be of any 'earthly good' is if we are heavenly minded. First though, we need to know what this means from a non-Christian view. Google says:

   "Being "heavenly minded" in a scriptural sense means prioritizing spiritual and eternal things over worldly or material concerns. It involves focusing one's thoughts, affections, and actions on God, His kingdom, and His will, rather than being consumed by the things of this world. This perspective shapes a believer's identity, values, and priorities, motivating them to live a life that reflects their heavenly citizenship and anticipates Christ's return."

That's a bad? Look at how scripture responds:

   "And we, [believing] brothers and sisters, like Isaac, are children [not merely of physical descent, like Ishmael, but are children born] of promise [born miraculously]. ... But what does the Scripture say? “Cast out the bondwoman [Hagar] and her son [Ishmael], for never shall the son of the bondwoman be heir and share the inheritance with the son of the free woman.”

So then, believers, we [who are born again—reborn from above—spiritually transformed, renewed, and set apart for His purpose] are not children of a slave woman [the natural], but of the free woman [the supernatural]. It was for this freedom that Christ set us free [completely liberating us]; therefore keep standing firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery [which you once removed]." [Galatians 4:28-5:1]

As we stand in our 'heavenly mindset' we stand as examples of who we are and Who we service.

   "Therefore if you have been raised with Christ [to a new life, sharing in His resurrection from the dead], keep seeking the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your mind and keep focused habitually on the things above [the heavenly things], not on things that are on the earth [which have only temporal value]. For you died [to this world], and your [new, real] life is hidden with Christ in God." [Colossians 3:1-3]

Sound like a plan? It is. And when we apply these mindsets we share with those around us the joy and peace that comes with ... being heavenly minded.

Examine

Interesting word that... how does it make you feel? Probably starting with a definition might help. I'm going to ignore, at least for the moment, the 'universal' definition or understanding about this word and look to scripture for a description, definition. Starting with Google first though - this is what 'they' say about the word.

   "In scripture, the word "examine" (often linked with "test" or "prove") is frequently used to encourage self-reflection and spiritual assessment. It's an invitation to introspectively evaluate one's faith, actions, and motivations in light of God's word and teachings." 

Purpose? 

"This examination is not meant to induce self-condemnation, but rather to foster growth, identify areas needing improvement, and ensure one's faith is genuine." 

Before commenting and getting into a discussion, let's also look at what the Word says: 

   " But a person must [prayerfully] examine himself [and his relationship to Christ], and only when he has done so should he eat of the bread and drink of the cup."  [1 Corinthians 11:28]  

Most people are familiar with this description as it is part of the commentary when the church observes Holy Communion.

   "Test and evaluate yourselves to see whether you are in the faith and living your lives as [committed] believers. Examine yourselves [not me]! Or do you not recognize this about yourselves [by an ongoing experience] that Jesus Christ is in you—unless indeed you fail the test and are rejected as counterfeit?" 

[2 Corinthians 13:5]

I think the question with this verse is: do we? Have you defined, not just described, 'committed believers'? Back to the question of how have you defined 'examine'? Let me also suggest Psalm 51:10-19 and 26. 

When you get right down to it - examine is an 'ouchy' word. It can be very painful when you do an honest appraisal of yourself. When you do take the time and examine yourself: your motives, the continuity between your words and your actions, the good bits as well as the sinful bits. All need considering. I never said it was easy. And yet, it is one of the most freeing and directing activities we do. 

Well I've set the parameters (self), the context (examine) and now to the work of examining. This was the introduction - stay around for the next segment.

Paths

I must admit I quite enjoy rabbit trails. These can be great fun and creative or an interesting ‘what if’, but they are or can be dangerous. I suspect that this is part of the charm. Fortunately, I have learned to be keenly aware of my path and not veer to far off of it (never out of sight). An excursion (into a rabbit trail) is, or can be, a different way of considering an issue, problem, study, etc. But it can lead to a rabbit trail of a rabbit trail to the point that the main path is completely out of view and lost.

Do you feel that you are on the path the Lord wants for you? If so... how do you know? And if not... do you want to get back on the path - if so, you'll need to honestly consider how and why you got off the path. The Lord said

  “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad and easy to travel is the path that leads the way to destruction and eternal loss, and there are many who enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow and difficult to travel is the path that leads the way to [everlasting] life, and there are few who find it." [Matthew 7:13-14]

This gives us a gigantic clue. Do we, right now feel, 1. a bit put upon, nothing seems to be going 'right' and you feel somewhat stuck in a bramble patch or 

2. life is smooth and easy, you aren't really being asked to do or be anything in particular. If 2 then you need to take another look at what's happening around you and what you are doing. Granted there are seasons of rest, but that's different. If, on the other hand, you feel like #1. Reassess. Because this may be a time of training, of testing. But never forget these 2 kinds of paths - and know yours.

Now... how can we judge if it's a season or we got off of our path? There are suggestions found in Matthew 7:

 

   “Beware of the false prophets, [teachers] who come to you dressed as sheep [appearing gentle and innocent], but inwardly are ravenous wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them [that is, by their contrived doctrine and self-focus]. Do people pick grapes from thorn bushes or figs from thistles? Even so, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the unhealthy tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit." [v. 15-18] 

Fruit bearing is never 'by accident' it comes from the inner parts of us. Look at Ephesians 3:16, Psalm 15:6, Proverbs 20:27, and 2 Corinthians 4:16. These are only a few of the scriptures that talk about the inner man from which our behavior and words stem. We never truly are accidental in our words... at least that's my opinion. Fruit is the best 'tool' in our assessment arsenal. To be oblivious is harmful to all. 

When it talks about looking at the fruit that is visible... don't ignore your own. It also tells you what you are demonstrating. If you are on your path you will have good fruit to share. And a word of correction is not construed as 'bad' fruit. It may be incorrect or not complete but it always tells us what others are seeing and that's invaluable.

Paths. Rabbit or not give us understandings and growth. Rabbit is a short time, short distance 'what if'. But don't be led by what if's - they can be dangerous to your health. Look around. Is where you are your path? If not... do you know how to find yours?

Did the Bible REALLY say that...

    "You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth [punishment that fits the offense].’ But I say to you, do not resist an evil person [who insults you or violates your rights]; but whoever slaps you on the right cheek, turn the other toward him also [simply ignore insignificant insults or trivial losses and do not bother to retaliate—maintain your dignity, your self-respect, your poise]."  [Matthew 5:38-39]

I have always had problems with these 2 verses. I'm not one that avoids conflicts, disagreements though physical violence is not my style. But a 'slap on the cheek' is always a deliberate act, even when it's a 'reaction'. Then again, it really isn't the physical slaps that hurt it's the personal words that can cut deeper. However, thank heavens for the Amplified Bible, because it's those words in ( ) that can give us a greater understanding, and this one also gives context. 

There are some major points for me and the first is: 'simply ignore insignificant insults or trivial losses and do not bother to retaliate'. I had a 'friend' who once said to me - 'you're no fun 'cause you don't respond. At the time I had no idea and it wasn't any brilliance on my part to not respond - for once (because that wasn't typical behavior on my part) I obviously was thinking on other 'things'.
But while we typically look at silence as assent, never assume. There really is strength in intentional silence because it always takes 2 to 'fight'. 

I've also discovered that the non response by me that is accompanied by just standing there, not cowering but maintaining my dignity, can have a great affect.

The, 'maintain your dignity, your self-respect, your poise' speaks volumes. And that was a very loud one. But to answer the Title's initial question - the answer is, 'Yes'.  But we've not read the context nor how the words are defined. Once you do delve a bit below the surface, then correct response can emerge.

Now the question becomes: can, will you comply? Will you depart the scene with your integrity in tact? Integrity is defined by behavior... will you stop long enough to see what your response should be? These verses and their associate behavior are saying far more than we initially realize. It doesn't mean 'fight', it doesn't mean 'flight', there are many opportunities to respond without incurring a negative reaction from the 'perpetrator'. You aren't responsible for their reactions but you most certainly are for yours. 

Flee and Come Close

    "7 So submit to [the authority of] God. Resist the devil [stand firm against him] and he will flee from you. 8 Come close to God [with a contrite heart] and He will come close to you."  [James 4: 7-8a] 
Resist doesn't automatically mean you come close. But duly note that both require YOU to 'do it'. 

Back in the previous century a comedian (Flip Wilson) use to have a scenario in which the punch line was, '... the devil made me do it.' Wrong. The devil does NOT have the power to 'make' you do anything. He'd like to, but the only thing he can do is tempt and seduce. But those 2 are powerful. Ultimately it is ALWAYS our decision to do or not do something. This holds for the Lord as well as the devil. God gave His creation - free will.

[[As a 'quick' aside - let me share a bit on what I mean when I use those words. 

    I think the primary need on our part is to ACCEPT the responsibility for the consequences/ramifications from one’s own actions and words or the lack thereof. You can’t expect to have free will and not realize what responsibilities comes

with that gift! I suspect we rush to accept the gift The Father gives us and try and have a blind eye when it comes to our responsibilities. 

The answer to accepting our responsibility is quite simple. Part of it rests in a prayer in Psalms that we all need to face our day:

   "Create in me a clean heart, O God, And renew a right and steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me away from Your presence And do not take Your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of Your salvation And sustain me with a willing spirit." [Psalms 51:10-12]

With those characteristics IN us, we can provide a strong defense.]]

The devil is not about to flee based on our own 'authority'. He does however quake when we use the same defense Jesus used when the devil tried to tempt Him - 'It Is Written'. You do remember that part of our armor is our sword... and the sword represents the Word of God. That is a very powerful weapon and the devil knows this. I wonder why we tend to not remember? Point being is that, not in our own authority but in Him who saved us, never leaves us, and is ready to equip us to be (more than) conquerors [Romans 8:37], we really can do all things [Philippians 4:13]. 

But resisting isn't the end... we need to do what James instructed: come close to God and He will come close to us.

Which are you?

Are you the son who when asked by his Father to do something says ‘no’. Or the son who readily agrees to do what is asked? Now the rest of the story… the first son, for whatever his reason, repents and does what his Father asks. The second son does not (never intended to?). How surprised is the Father by at the results? More important, which is you?

Stop for a moment and honestly assess the number of times the Lord's asked you to do something - what kind of responder are you? This really isn't a comfortable question to answer. While we might try and cling to the '...I wasn't certain that He meant me, it could simply be giving me information" - does that sound as lame to you as it does to me. And how many times have we used that or a variation of it? For me... far more than I'm willing to acknowledge. But... you know what!? I'm trying very hard not to shift the 'blame' or seek a scapegoat for my behavior. I'm getting quite fast at apologizing (sincerely, not the throw away type). Part of my 'speed' is so that the danglies (my word for unresolved and to be resolved words and/or behavior) are not clogging my way.

Quite honestly, I'm trying to not be quick to say 'yes Lord' but not following through. Now a reallllllly difficult question - how many times have you said - not me, not ready, or whatever 'reason' you have for not accepting the opportunity, the assignment offered? I am not going to get sidetracked by which is worse: saying yes and not doing (fill in the blank) or saying 'no', I'm not ready. 

But let's look at the 'not ready'. Do you honestly believe the Lord would ask you to do something you couldn't do? Did He ever say that you'd be doing it alone? Do you know why you don't feel prepared? Do you know what you need in order to accept the assignment? First... if you think the Lord would ask you to do something you could never do - that isn't the Person I know. He never sets us up for failure. Yes, He tests, but the tests are more for us to know what we don't know so we can prepare. And who said you had to do it all by yourself?!!! My experience is that when faced with these kinds of situations, I turn to the Lord and say - 

   "Be my Senior Partner please and help to learn what I need. Not that I'm

    seeking to be a Senior Partner but I need to learn what the Junior Partner

    does." 

It took me some time, but I learned that the song was alllll wrong! I really don't want to do it - my way. I've learned that it is delightful sharing.

The other part of 'not ready' is - what are you doing to be ready? Are you studying, and growing, do you feel you are more equipped today than you were a week ago? Have you asked what you need to learn? Before you think me harsh about all the questions - not intentionally. I've walked that path - really didn't need to, but I did. 

By now you've probably noticed that my focus has not really been on the 'which are you' but on you who say - yes but don't do. We really are talking about picking up our cross and carrying it, following after the Lord. One source said:

   "Following the Lord, particularly Jesus Christ in Christian belief, involves a commitment to align one's life with His teachings and example, seeking His guidance and submitting to His authority. It includes living out His values, transforming one's priorities and actions, and seeking a deeper relationship with God."

Paul said it best:

   "Not that I have already obtained it [this goal of being Christlike] or have already been made perfect, but I actively press on so that I may take hold of that [perfection] for which Christ Jesus took hold of me and made me His own. Brothers and sisters, I do not consider that I have made it my own yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the [heavenly] prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus." [Philippians 3:12-14]

That's following. And I believe that when you say 'yes' to the Lord but quickly follow it by acknowledging your need for Him to be part of the fulfillment of the yes that victory will be yours and growth will be the testament of your learning.

When you can’t find happy

Been there? I have … more than once and I do not like that place. Even worse - I don’t like me when I’m there. It’s a place in which I can’t find peace and worse - joy. It’s not depression, it’s not dissatisfaction but the depth is so deep that you can’t see the top of the ‘hole, pit’ you somehow are in. You really aren't comfortable in your own skin. You are restless, distracted, wandering, and a few other negative emotions that don't give hope.

Life seems to be a series of highs and lows or as I refer to them as - seasons of life. I seriously doubt anyone can sustain these two polar opposites for long periods of time. It’s the middle ground that needs to be cultivated because that’s where we spend the majority of our time. Part of my question is - do we recognize these times, seasons or is only on retrospect? Perhaps it's as we enter these times that we suddenly realize that we've somehow wandered off our path.

A little hint - don't go looking for happy... you rarely find 'happy' by looking for it. I think 'happy' is illusive, transitory, surface. I've been around some people who appear to be able to turn on a dime from 'miserable' to happy (and vice versa). Which leads me to think there isn't much depth to 'happy'. One secular source says:

   "In the Bible, happiness (often translated from the Greek word "μακαρισμος" or "μακαριο") is not just about fleeting emotions, but a deeper, more profound state of well-being and joy that comes from a relationship with God. It's a contentment that is not dependent on circumstances, but rooted in faith and a sense of God's favor."

In other words, they are defining happiness by joy.  And 'joy' is a much deeper state. 
https://restorativecc.com/ provides a chart that compares happiness and joy.

         Happiness                                                 Joy

Based on circumstances                         Despite circumstances

Us focused                                         Kingdom focused

In reaction to accomplishments,                  From a place of gratitude, praise and

   achievement, and material gain                     confidence 

Is a feeling (remember feelings are fleeting) State of being

Looking to earthly things                          Viewing from a heavenly perspective

Hope in “it”  (it being the thing you think       Full of hope

  will bring you happiness)

When I first looked at the 'definitions' this company developed to explain the differences, I saw the main reason almost immediately. It really is based in who your source is. Happiness is more of a object based state while joy has it's source in a Christian mindset of relationship with the Lord and His promises.

If you look for joy... you will find it  One source explains joy as:

   "The biblical definition of joy says that joy is a feeling of good pleasure and happiness that is dependent on who Jesus is rather than on who we are or what is happening around us. Joy comes from the Holy Spirit, abiding in God's presence and from hope in His word."

That certainly is more substantial and long lasting.

Do all and More

Are you a ‘Do all things’ and ‘More than a conqueror’ Christian?  

   “I can do all things [which He has called me to do] through Him who strengthens and empowers me [to fulfill His purpose—I am self-sufficient in Christ’s sufficiency; I am ready for anything and equal to anything through Him who infuses me with inner strength and confident peace.]”

‭‭Philippians‬ ‭4‬:‭13‬ ‭AMP

   “Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors and gain an overwhelming victory through Him who loved us [so much that He died for us].” 

Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭37‬ ‭AMP‬‬

Yes, I am linking 2 scriptures - do you see the words? Would you let them define who you are - how the Lord sees you? Do you see the source in both scriptures and let it be the foundation for your words and actions? Do these 2 scriptures paint a picture for you?

Many times a 'can't' slips into our spoken words. But are you confident that your 'can't' is accurate? You have the Lord working in you when you accepted Him as your Lord - right? And He really CAN do all things - right? Then if He is calling you to it....... He is/has already equipped you for it - yes? If our 'no' is based on our perception of who we are then perhaps you could be right. But......... if He IS your Lord, if He is who He says He is and if He has come to make a home in you [John 14:23]... doesn't that make you a 'more than' and a 'can do'? Certainly, you can't be arguing with scripture??????

I could provide you with other confirming scriptures, but I think the point's made. We really can't be 'can'ts' and all and more at the same time. Don't be dismayed, I think most of us have bought the lie satan sends us about who we are, even after we have been born again. Sometimes I don't think we understand that when we have accepted Jesus' Lordship that that's when the devil gets really riled and tries to throw every possible doubt our way. Remember... simply because he throws it doesn't mean we have to catch it.  

Where... a ? or !

 So do you know where you are? What season are you in? Where do you want to be? Are you willing to pay the cost of getting there? and/or Not getting there? I suspect, in some respect, I'm asking you what you are doing with your free will. Saying you don't have it is completely untrue - you do! Not using it is using it. The Father chose to make His ultimate creation, man, have the ability to make his own decisions. But this is not in a vacuum - we have all the directions, understandings available to us to make Good decisions - it's called, The Bible. All your questions are answered there.

And notice I did not say you will always understand... or even like the answers. Not the point - the answers are there and we have the free will to accept it or not. But remember, not accepting it comes with more consequences than following it. I also discovered that the Lord never gets upset with all my 'why's'. He always patiently explains through His word. Then again, I don't approach my why's with a rebellious spirit - my intent is to understand. Interestingly enough when I get to that point of accepting or rejecting - liking isn't one of the options. I may not like it... but will I follow it? 

Sometimes the problem seems to be that we don't always like the decisions we make. Or maybe we feel rushed (by whom?) to make a decision we aren't confident in? Perhaps it's a case of accepting the lesser of evils? When we begin heading in the direction of a decision, do we also begin to develop our scapegoat in case things don't go positively?

Remember too that we have different seasons. Sometimes we are in a highly active time in which time just flies by. Other times we seem to be in a learning time. Do we recognize this and take advantage of the opportunity to learn, to grow? Still other times appear to be testing times. As uncomfortable as those times are - do we choose to learn through them? My belief (based in scripture - James 1L13) that the Lord will never tempt me. Test, on the other hand - absolutely. 

Why tests? Because that tells us what it is we do know and understand and what we still need to know. Tests are as much for us, making certain that we are learning and incorporating into our MO what we learn and know AND still need to learn. So back to the initial question. Do you know WHERE you are and is it a ! or a ?, and what will You do about it?

Only… Just

Those 2 words, only and just, are NOT descriptions! Nor should they be attributed to You or you attribute them to another person. What a gigantic put down. The problem, of course, is the definitions of those 2 words. Then again, many of our communication problems occurs because we assume we all define words in the same way... and we don't always.

I've discovered, when I've heard either of those 2 words attributed whether to me, someone or something else that the person speaking them might not (benefit of a huge doubt) realize what they are implying. Personally, I don't believe these two condescending words should ever be used with/about people. I certainly don't want to be described or seen as a 'just' or an 'only'. Not new behavior. I remember... a long time ago when I was probably 6 or 7 an 'adult' speaking to someone, that children were 'just'... I also remember saying that I may be many things but a 'just' was not one of them. (Only ever so slightly precocious.)

It wasn't until years later that I realized it was a put down (or a put in one's place) comment. It was meant to be condescending. It there is any behavior that immediately strikes a reaction in me is when someone is being patronizing. Part of my intense dislike is probably based in how I was raised. There's even a scripture that talks about this. We should never ascribe a certain elevated prestige that is not ours to 'proclaim'. And, scripture also tells us that we shouldn't esteem ourselves better and that God never shows partiality.  

If you doubt my scriptural reference, let me quote one source:

   "Several Bible verses speak to God lifting us up. James 4:10 states, "Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up." 1 Peter 5:6-7 encourages, "Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that He may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." Additionally, Psalm 3:3 says, "But You, O Lord, are a shield for me, My glory and the One who lifts up my head."

John 12:43 says: "..for they loved the approval of men more than the approval of God." Now these scriptures put a period to self-esteem and simultaneously show us Who can grant and lift us up. 

If you think I just provided the argument for only and just - no. Look at the source - it's speaking to man about man and indicating Who should be the source. No one should put another person down for any reason - that's not your role or responsibility. You also need not follow them. 

Final thought. You really CAN become an 'only' or a 'just' - but that's your choice. Never choose this... there's no benefit.